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So things are progressing with the guy I'm seeing, but I have an issue with the fact that he hardly kisses me and his kisses are kinda weak . He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him . It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on??
I'm not sure if I should pull away or not. this is weird to me.
He is afraid of getting too close to you and was hurt once already. Don't let it get you down it seems he likes you and my own mother met my dad while he was going through a divorce. It's rough but he most likely needs you for the distracting and companionship. And from another sexual chick you need to be patient.
I am not sure what to say....kissing is so extremely important to me....passive kissing would be a turn off. I also don't understand his excuse. Perhaps he is just not into kissing.
So things are progressing with the guy I'm seeing, but I have an issue with the fact that he hardly kisses me and his kisses are kinda weak. He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him . It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on??
I'm not sure if I should pull away or not. this is weird to me.
He is afraid of getting too close to you and was hurt once already. Don't let it get you down it seems he likes you and my own mother met my dad while he was going through a divorce. It's rough but he most likely needs you for the distracting and companionship. And from another sexual chick you need to be patient.
I"ve never dealt with anyone who's been hurt like this who I like back so its new to me, but what you just said is what I figured. I want him to want me for me, not for some distraction..he can use another girl for his manwh*re needs if that's what it is. but ya, I"m being patient..its just kissing is so important to me and it really gets me going so its frustrating.
max's mama-ya I know, its almost turning me off. I really really like him so I"m being patient, but I don't know that I'll be able to take this passive kissing in a LTR, no matter how attracted to him I am.
miami-I don't know how to teach..I've never had to!! lol
He is afraid of getting too close to you and was hurt once already.
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Originally Posted by mir86
I"ve never dealt with anyone who's been hurt like this
Ignore this, Mir! Total female projection! Men do NOT work this way! They're not afraid of a damn thing if they're into somebody and don't even give the past a second thought.
I really really like him so I"m being patient, but I don't know that I'll be able to take this passive kissing in a LTR, no matter how attracted to him I am.
If the kissing so early in a relationship was turning me off or frustrating me, I don't think I would have been patient and likely ended it (as much as I liked them as a person).
So things are progressing with the guy I'm seeing, but I have an issue with the fact that he hardly kisses me and his kisses are kinda weak . He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him .
I don't understand the bolded part.
Seriously, did you start typing in Russian or something?
Seriously, did you start typing in Russian or something?
She's saying that she was on her period and the guy didn't want to kiss her a lot because then he would want to have sex with her and she was on her period and so he knew it wasn't going to happen so he just wouldn't even kiss her so as to not get hard.
Comprende?
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. He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him 
. It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on?? 
