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a cop out is a woman that is on her period who just because she isnt comfortable having sex while on it cuts off her mate..is there anything wrong with her mouth or hand?...if he said 'i might get too excited'..then finish him off.
So things are progressing with the guy I'm seeing, but I have an issue with the fact that he hardly kisses me and his kisses are kinda weak . He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him . It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on??
I'm not sure if I should pull away or not. this is weird to me.
That would definitely be a turn-off for me. Anyone that I am going to date better kiss me with some OOMPH! And make me want more!
um, we do change in front of each other, we even shower together (sorry if that's t.m.i.). To be fair, I was at the end of the period so we did it anyways, we found ways, so the whole not kissing cause he would get too turned on became irrelevant.
and no, he's not really an emotional person. I'm very emotional so sometimes I think the opposite would be good for me..I'm trying to figure out if that's true in practice (damn being young and not knowing these things yet!).
As for the kissing thing..ya like Prince Frog said..I'm sticking around cause I care. I'm used to guys I'm seeing always wanting to kiss me so this is weird to me. Not sure if its cause he's holding back for whatever reason or if its cause he's just not that into me.
Ignore this, Mir! Total female projection! Men do NOT work this way! They're not afraid of a damn thing if they're into somebody and don't even give the past a second thought.
That's what I thought! I mean he told me tonight he wouldn't ask to see me if he didn't want to (It just came out..I didn't push him on that one). He said his final paper work from his divorce is still waiting to be mailed to him for him to sign so technically he's still married..I don't know if that changes things. He's been keeping me posted on all of this..I'm guessing that its not cause he's trying to make conversation, lol.
the squeemish thing though..he was the one that wanted to eff even though I wasn't completely done with my period...I just went with it!
So things are progressing with the guy I'm seeing, but I have an issue with the fact that he hardly kisses me and his kisses are kinda weak . He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him . It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on??
I'm not sure if I should pull away or not. this is weird to me.
Kissing and sex are related... especially regarding passion
haha, possibly. I guess we'll find out. I'm prepared for that possibility.
cwamjin-no, its not my breath. If it was, other guys would have done the same thing, but instead they've actually wanted to kiss me more.
BKSnook-I agree which is why this is bothering me...
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. He's not a bad kisser..he just has no urgency and I want more passion. For example, this Sunday morning, I tried to make out a little bit and his excuse for not, was that he gets too turned on and since I was on my time of the month and we couldn't do anything, it would be too much for him 
. It felt like a cop out to me and really makes me feel like he's not into me, not to mention that's what porn and his hand are for. yet he always contacts me and always asks to see me. Could it be his divorce (he hasn't seen the ex in a year) and the fact that he was cheated on?? 
