Why don't men like it when girls play hard to get? (call, respect)

[miamisweetheart]

Originally Posted by noela

men aren't hunters anymore, it seems...

lol

[JustJulia]

What does "playing hard to get" mean? Can you give some examples?

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by noela

men aren't hunters anymore, it seems...

Men "hunt" something thats worth it..Playing hard to get and not letting a guy know if you like him at all while the women does nothing will not make a Man want to continue pursuing you..

[Shaolin070388]

Men aren't into playing games and competition. We're simple. If we sense the slightest bit of disinterest, we assume you're not interested.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by Shaolin070388

Men aren't into playing games and competition. We're simple. If we sense the slightest bit of disinterest, we assume you're not interested.

Agreed..Call me crazy but if a women shows no interest in me i tend to think shes umm not interested..

WOmen who play games or want to be put on a pedestal scream high maintenance and/or drama queens to me either one is not good..

Plus for a Man if he continues to pursue a women when she doesnt seem interested if she truly isnt intersted hell be labeled a creep..

[miamisweetheart]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

What does "playing hard to get" mean? Can you give some examples?

1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by miamisweetheart

1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him

That's not playing hard to get that's being a jerk

[miamisweetheart]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Agreed..Call me crazy but if a women shows no interest in me i tend to think shes umm not interested..

WOmen who play games or want to be put on a pedestal scream high maintenance and/or drama queens to me either one is not good..

Plus for a Man if he continues to pursue a women when she doesnt seem interested if she truly isnt intersted hell be labeled a creep..

How so?

[himain]

Originally Posted by miamisweetheart

1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him

Ohhhhhh little girl you have A LOT to learn..

[miamisweetheart]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

That's not playing hard to get that's being a jerk

OMG I am not a jerk I just want to see how far he'll go for me