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Old 07-19-2011, 04:48 PM
 
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Originally Posted by miamisweetheart View Post
1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him
That's extremely childish.

From my point of view, I wouldn't even bother. Yes, that's very jerkish to me as well.

 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:49 PM
 
Location: FL
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Ohhhhhh little girl you have A LOT to learn..
What?
 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:52 PM
 
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Originally Posted by miamisweetheart View Post
1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him
Oh Hellllllll No!

No man worth his weight in salt is going to put up with this. The only guy your going to get with this behavior is an extremely desperate doormat.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:53 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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You do seem to come across as somewhat childish. Men, as women, should not be teased, toyed, or played.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:54 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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That's not playing hard to get that's being a jerk
Yeah. Sorry.

You say you want to see how far they'll go ... but in your opening post you said they lose interest. If you act like you couldn't care less, they'll usually believe you! This doesn't mean you have to go up to some guy and grab him in the junk. There is a happy medium between easy and hard-to-get.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:57 PM
 
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Originally Posted by miamisweetheart View Post
1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him
Yikes, that is going a bit too extreme, don't you think? No wonder the men you meet don't like it. No person, male or female would like being treated that way - so I wouldn't call your strategy "playing hard to get". It sounds more like becoming easy to forget.

Perhaps you could just skip #2, #3, #4, and #6. Those actions are just extremely rude and no one should be subjected to that.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 04:58 PM
 
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Agreed..Call me crazy but if a women shows no interest in me i tend to think shes umm not interested..

WOmen who play games or want to be put on a pedestal scream high maintenance and/or drama queens to me either one is not good..

Plus for a Man if he continues to pursue a women when she doesnt seem interested if she truly isnt intersted hell be labeled a creep..

Exactly. Aloof doesn't work.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:01 PM
 
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I think there needs be be a balance between letting him think you like the chase and coming easy to him (no not like that).
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:02 PM
 
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OMG I am not a jerk I just want to see how far he'll go for me

No guy with an ounce of self-respect is going to go for you if that's how you really act.
 
Old 07-19-2011, 05:03 PM
 
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Originally Posted by miamisweetheart View Post
1. Avoiding eye contact- everytime he looks at me I look away
2.Whenever he calls or txt I ignore and take long to reply
3.Tell him I want to hang then cancel plans with them
4. Pretend that I am not interested in anything he says
5. Bring my friends whenever we meet up
6. Talk about other men when I'm around him
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