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Old 07-27-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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I think the guy is into you big time...May be is his way of showing affection... If he was a player he would be overly touchy-feely and will have suggested explicit stuff to you by now...May be you should give him some time to prove himself, that's all...
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Old 07-27-2011, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Default OMG... yes!!

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This thread could be a case study in both male and female insecurity.

Ladyturquoise, the simple fact of the matter is that if you're trying to spot a real player (one who legitimately cheats on women, not just a ***** hound that the haters throw labels at) then you're not going to have much luck by looking at the way they dress or comb their hair. Players come in all different forms.
I could certainly tell you stories that would make you laugh so hard milk would run out of your nose... LOL...

Trust your instincts... watch for "signs"... body language.... It takes many years of experience and trust me... there is always that very "clever bugger" still out there LOL
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Old 07-27-2011, 11:55 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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That does not matter because its natural to see good looking girls.
You're almost right but not quite. Most men like to look at pretty women--we know that. But, your average man will sneak a peek at the woman and try to look like he's not looking at her. The player on the other hand will look quite boldly at the woman and wink or flirt openly. I see this all the time when men are with their wives and he will walk a few steps in front of her and do the routine and I just think he's a scum for doing that when he's married.
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Old 07-28-2011, 12:05 AM
 
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You're almost right but not quite. Most men like to look at pretty women--we know that. But, your average man will sneak a peek at the woman and try to look like he's not looking at her. The player on the other hand will look quite boldly at the woman and wink or flirt openly. I see this all the time when men are with their wives and he will walk a few steps in front of her and do the routine and I just think he's a scum for doing that when he's married.
A lot of women check out men but they don't make it too obvious.
Whats the big deal? Its the same thing as going to the movies with some hot woman in there.

You also do not have to be a player to wink or flirt openly.
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Old 07-30-2011, 09:14 PM
 
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I am afraid this guy is a player...why??? He seems too experienced and overly confident...but at the same time he seems like he is honest and straightforward...Do you think the older the men the better they play the game...because if he is a player, what a good game he is playing because he's got me all confused................
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Old 07-30-2011, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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How to recognize a player ??? Is there a way of uncovering the game???
Honey, you are the game!
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Old 07-30-2011, 10:27 PM
 
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Default How Do I Uncover a Player?

Simple. If he appears too good to be true, he probably is.

Of course, most women have been raised on a steady diet of: "you deserve the best" and "life's only limits are what you make them". Given this, they are more than likely to be taken in by any player. These guys deal with dreams, not reality. Reality seems ugly in comparison.
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Old 07-30-2011, 10:30 PM
 
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You're almost right but not quite. Most men like to look at pretty women--we know that. But, your average man will sneak a peek at the woman and try to look like he's not looking at her. The player on the other hand will look quite boldly at the woman and wink or flirt openly. I see this all the time when men are with their wives and he will walk a few steps in front of her and do the routine and I just think he's a scum for doing that when he's married.
How do you know that he is married. Perhaps he is only looking for his next "adventure".

That's hoe players always appeared to me.
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Old 07-30-2011, 11:29 PM
 
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I am afraid this guy is a player...why??? He seems too experienced and overly confident...but at the same time he seems like he is honest and straightforward...Do you think the older the men the better they play the game...because if he is a player, what a good game he is playing because he's got me all confused................
Who are you talking about? It also comes down to experience and learning from mistakes.
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Old 07-31-2011, 04:25 AM
 
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I am afraid this guy is a player...why??? He seems too experienced and overly confident...but at the same time he seems like he is honest and straightforward...Do you think the older the men the better they play the game...because if he is a player, what a good game he is playing because he's got me all confused................
Of course, older men are better at playing the game.
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