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I didn't need to read any other replies on this one. For me it's easily anwsered. YOU control how someone makes you feel!!! You can't control what they say to you, but, you have control over how someone makes you feel.
Dump the jerk, find someone who will love and appreciate you ALL the time!!!!
Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
Insufficient information.
Since we don't know his side of the story or your own personality it's hard to judge.
How have you been with other bf's? Are you a jealous person?
Really, this is the kind of question you should be talking over with people that know you and him like your gf's.
Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
Have you ever been treated like that? what did you do? what do you suggest a different girl under the same treatment should do?
I mean he can like see a girl for 5 minutes and assume she's more worth everything to him than I. He acts like she's so perfect and she's so better than me. I have no right to put them down when I'm just stating simple facts in the way they act is not right. He defends them like they mean more to him than I do to him. He doesn't seem to care. I told him it hurt me when he's like that and he acts like I'm worrying over something stupid. We get along every other day, these days happen like once every two weeks or longer...
I try to discuss it with him later and he says I'm worried over "old history"
A guy should never make you feel bad about yourself. Hell, a friend should not either. Why are you still talking to this guy? He doesn't respect you, he checks out other girls in front of you, you feel insecure with him..... the list is long.
I second the others, dump him and while you are it, work on your confidence and self esteem so that next time, guys like him won't last a minute doing what he did.
I am stating this as a woman and trying to be diplomatic..there are two sides..I think I have been there but with an ex...
Casual setting be it a movie, an outing, a bar scene where you stopped in after the beach?
Your having a great time..then it comes...the negativity...the comments.."Wow, really bro gonna show up looking like that?" "Wow can you believe that guy is dancing out there and does not have a clue" "Look at that guy, what a dork.."
I cannot stand this..It makes a really GOOD looking guy REALLY ugly super fast...First of all, why are you worried about everyone else? Focus on me right? This tells me you have issues..and you are insecure and obviously need to be Captin obvious as if I am not there with you..
No man whom is secure is going to bash another man...period..
And no woman or lady I should say is going to waste her time bashing another woman..you can think it but never say it is just beneath you..
So yes when this has happened I have defended the underdog because this is how I am...NOONE IS PERFECT...and one should never cast stones from a glass house..
You've told him it bothers you.. He continues to do it... Time to walk away... There are a million guys out there that will respect you and appreciate what you offer. I say this from experience. I'm a guy and my GF is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Do I notice other women.. Sure I do but I never react and she never knows I took a peek
He thinks that you'll never leave him. Find someone worth your time.
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