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Lots of variables and context come into play, but asking "Do I have a chance for a relationship with you" displays about zero confidence and probably won't get you great results.
How about a guy asking this to a girl or vice versa?
If asked right away it would seem over whelming..
Texas... if you ask this after a few weeks of dating I believe the woman would be honest and let you know... it would be refreshing to have a man care enough to ask instead of the game "act like you don't give a sh*t" How does this show lack of confidence to inquire if there is any future with this relationship? (if that is the intent)...
Because men and women communicate and react so differently... being direct and upfront would show me that this is a unique individual... take the guessing and games out of it... PLEASE...
I think its ok if they are not with someone. Common? I dunno...stranger things can happen but I always thought it was cute to hear. Even if it wasn't going to go anywhere its still a nice compliment.
"No, you have no chance with me" sounds stuck-up and mean.
"Yes, you have a chance with me" sounds like you're throwing the dog a bone.
Neither is good. Bad question to ask.
how about... "I'd love to spend more time with you and get to know you better"... "I really enjoy your company" or "you make me smile when I think of you"...
"No, you have no chance with me" sounds stuck-up and mean.
"Yes, you have a chance with me" sounds like you're throwing the dog a bone. Neither is good. Bad question to ask.
Maybe we should march on over to namby pamby land and getting yourself some self confidence.
Amazing what would happen if you possessed some confidence instead of being a whining little sniveler who has to ask he has a chance. If I was the opposite sex and someone asked me that, I'd fall over laughing at you, right to your face.
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