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Old 10-19-2011, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I can dig that, but she all the way in Atlanta, why would she care? Plus the other women just give props & talk about other stuff...but THIS other friend....I dont want to bark at he cause she helped me a lot in Atlanta & I value the friendship. Its like I have to avoid her now, cause I dont think it right to send my girl pic to a chick she never meet.
If she is JUST a friend, then why do you care? I mean, what diffrence does it make?
She should be happy for you, regardless whether she has ever met her or not.
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Old 10-20-2011, 05:58 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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To prove she's real.
To see if she's prettier than your friend.
To see if she's pretty enough for you.
Because she's interested in what's going on in your life.

What's the problem? She's not asking for nudes, is she?
Maybe she's actually a lesbian who wants to steal your girl from you, watch out!
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:01 AM
 
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She may be attracted to you and she's trying to guage whether you'd find her attractive by seeing the type of woman that interests you.

Sounds bizzare but that's my take on it.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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She just wants to see what she looks like, nothing more than that. If she were staying in your hometown, she would ask to meet her or ask to see her picture. Don't make it out to be anything more than what it is.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:53 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I dont think it right to send my girl pic to a chick she never meet.

You're right, it's not, don't do it.

Have some respect for your lady.
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Old 10-20-2011, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Virginia-Shenandoah Valley
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We cool?
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Old 10-20-2011, 09:01 AM
 
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I wonder why that is. Hmmmm....could it have anything to do with being judged by men by our looks? Nah. That's too easy an answer.
Hell, women judge women on their looks. Have you ever watched women when a new woman walks into the room? They sweep their eyes over her in roughly two-tenths of a second, classifying her by her hair, her weight, and what she has on. In that sense, women are far tougher on each other than men.
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Old 10-20-2011, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Hell, women judge women on their looks. Have you ever watched women when a new woman walks into the room? They sweep their eyes over her in roughly two-tenths of a second, classifying her by her hair, her weight, and what she has on. In that sense, women are far tougher on each other than men.
Some are, yes. I remember getting the ups and downs from the snooty girls in school. Again, I suspect it has a lot to do with how men pit us against each other by comparing us (mainly to models and movie stars, people who are paid good incentive to maintain, sometimes even buy their looks). Personally, I like to look at other women's dress and hair to get new ideas myself. Most of us like to change our look from time to time.
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Old 10-20-2011, 08:45 PM
 
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men don't compare you to anything, unless it's to one other specific girl they have their eye on. The male thought process goes like this "does she look good enough? yes/no--proceed."
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Old 10-20-2011, 08:49 PM
 
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men don't compare you to anything, unless it's to one other specific girl they have their eye on. The male thought process goes like this "does she look good enough? yes/no--proceed."
Yep. This.
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