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Old 10-19-2011, 02:52 PM
 
Location: International Spacestation
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I moved here to Chicago in March 11, I have friends from my old cities that I keep in touch with. I have a cool chick Ive been dating since like July...we cool. Ive told my other female friends I have this new girlfriend & I have one in Atlanta that keeps asking me to send her a picture of my girl to her phone. Ive never been asked that before. Normally I change the subject or laugh it off like yea right. My question to city-data women is what is that about?? Why would u want to see a woman in another city? Ve known this other female for like 2 years, but she never did anything weird like that. I dont like confronting friends especially my female friends, but I dont get it.

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Old 10-19-2011, 02:54 PM
 
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To prove she's real.
To see if she's prettier than your friend.
To see if she's pretty enough for you.
Because she's interested in what's going on in your life.

What's the problem? She's not asking for nudes, is she?
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Old 10-19-2011, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Maybe she wants to see if she thinks she looks better than your girl. And if she does than she's going to try and take you away.
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Old 10-19-2011, 03:16 PM
 
Location: International Spacestation
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To prove she's real.
To see if she's prettier than your friend.
To see if she's pretty enough for you.
Because she's interested in what's going on in your life.

What's the problem? She's not asking for nudes, is she?
Naw never nudes...I could see a friend asking once, but it beeb brought up like 4 times man...Im like whats going on? Why would I have a fake girlfriend?
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Old 10-19-2011, 03:26 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Naw never nudes...I could see a friend asking once, but it beeb brought up like 4 times man...Im like whats going on? Why would I have a fake girlfriend?
Maybe she thinks it's just another male 'big fish' story.
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Old 10-19-2011, 03:53 PM
 
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Lots of women have almost a pathological need to compare themselves to other women.
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Old 10-19-2011, 04:00 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Lots of women have almost a pathological need to compare themselves to other women.
I wonder why that is. Hmmmm....could it have anything to do with being judged by men by our looks? Nah. That's too easy an answer.
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Old 10-19-2011, 04:22 PM
 
Location: International Spacestation
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Maybe she thinks it's just another male 'big fish' story.
What?
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Old 10-19-2011, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I moved here to Chicago in March 11, I have friends from my old cities that I keep in touch with. I have a cool chick Ive been dating since like July...we cool. Ive told my other female friends I have this new girlfriend & I have one in Atlanta that keeps asking me to send her a picture of my girl to her phone. Ive never been asked that before. Normally I change the subject or laugh it off like yea right. My question to city-data women is what is that about?? Why would u want to see a woman in another city? Ve known this other female for like 2 years, but she never did anything weird like that. I dont like confronting friends especially my female friends, but I dont get it.
Women are weird creatures!
Don`t make a big deal out of it. Just be proud to send her a pic of your girl!
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Old 10-19-2011, 04:26 PM
 
Location: International Spacestation
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Lots of women have almost a pathological need to compare themselves to other women.
I can dig that, but she all the way in Atlanta, why would she care? Plus the other women just give props & talk about other stuff...but THIS other friend....I dont want to bark at he cause she helped me a lot in Atlanta & I value the friendship. Its like I have to avoid her now, cause I dont think it right to send my girl pic to a chick she never meet.
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