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Let's say for argument's sake, you meet someone and get to know them for a good period of time. Some of their qualities attract you and you begin to start to thinking about them.
The only problem is ... he/she is clearly out of your league, physically.
Maybe he/she is a certain race or ethnicity that usually is not attracted to yours, or is just much better looking. In other words, they are quite far from what you have dated and had success with in the past.
In addition, you know that you are nowhere near the 'type' that person has dated in the past.
Do you go for it, or rationalize that your chances are probably slim to none.
There is no such thing as "out of your league". If you go up to a girl already thinking that you don't deserve her, girls pick up on those things fast, and you will get a lot of rejection.
Confidence is probably one of the most important things most women look for, so, obviously, you will be rejected if you are thinking you are not good enough for her.
Let's say for argument's sake, you meet someone and get to know them for a good period of time. Some of their qualities attract you and you begin to start to thinking about them.
The only problem is ... he/she is clearly out of your league, physically.
Maybe he/she is a certain race or ethnicity that usually is not attracted to yours, or is just much better looking. In other words, they are quite far from what you have dated and had success with in the past.
In addition, you know that you are nowhere near the 'type' that person has dated in the past.
Do you go for it, or rationalize that your chances are probably slim to none.
It's a matter of luck and chance. For example, this woman might be tired of the guys in her league and ready to settle for someone of your fiber.
So if you happened to meet such a woman, you would get lucky with her.
There are lots of attractive women with unattractive guys and vise versa.
Trying is good. You never know. It might be your lucky day.
There are leagues in sports. There are also teams that are nowhere near as good as the opposing team but you see upsets in sports all the time. Its all about determination and passion.
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