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Old 10-30-2011, 08:12 AM
 
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You are coming off real creepy. Kisses?!? She is not going to meet up with you if you continue with the romantic talk that is turning into sexual harrassment. Tell her you would like to have a discussion ABOUT HER BLOG. Stop hitting on her because she does not know you and is going to end up skipping you completely. Actually, the way you are going, she might actually block you .
yikes. i thought that 'kisses' was a friendly gesture.
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Old 10-30-2011, 08:18 AM
 
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yikes. i thought that 'kisses' was a friendly gesture.
I never say "kisses" when I email my friends. Unless I think they're cute.
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Old 10-30-2011, 08:45 AM
 
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I never say "kisses" when I email my friends. Unless I think they're cute.
oops. well i can see how i made a mistake there. is there anything i can do about it?
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Old 10-30-2011, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Canada
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oops. well i can see how i made a mistake there. is there anything i can do about it?
If a stranger had sent me the email you wrote, and signed it with "kisses", I would not respond again and especially wouldn't meet up.

No, you can't undo it, and if you've blown a chance to meet her now, hopefully you will learn from this and not repeat this situation on the next person you're interested in.
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Old 10-30-2011, 09:42 AM
 
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If a stranger had sent me the email you wrote, and signed it with "kisses", I would not respond again and especially wouldn't meet up.

No, you can't undo it, and if you've blown a chance to meet her now, hopefully you will learn from this and not repeat this situation on the next person you're interested in.
yes you are right.
Cant i just man-up about it and send another message saying ''i just feel the need to say that im sorry about how i signed off on my last message (kisses). It was a spur of the moment thing and it was a bit stupid of me, i hope that i never gave off the wrong impression.''
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Old 10-30-2011, 10:32 AM
 
Location: The Mitten
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So, your nervous, and you have every right to be. I have to condone you, though. If I seen something online that sent a signal to me to meet this person, I would simply brush it off saying it was nothing; so kudos to you.

If you do get a date from this person, you can unleash all the questions and feelings you have at this date. Don't bombard her with silly questions like, "Do you like me?", just be yourself. Ask her questions about her blog, what made her write it; things of this nature.

If you don't get a date, don't jump to conclusions about this person. Know for one thing you probably did more than most guys will even think of doing. Look back on that and pat yourself on the back.
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Old 10-30-2011, 01:00 PM
 
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screw it, im just going to send her a message and apologise anyway. If i have screwed up, i have already done it anyway.
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Old 10-30-2011, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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God no, just leave it alone now, please. The more you try to explain the worse it's going to get. Just wait, and if you hear from her again, then great, and if you don't, then move on. Yes, the "kisses" probably blew it for you, but sending another message won't help. Just forget about it.
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Old 10-30-2011, 02:02 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She said she isn't interested in you. Stop chasing her and find a new one.
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Old 10-30-2011, 02:15 PM
 
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i dont understand how people can be so shallow that i could blow a date with one word (kisses). Its not like i sent her a topless picture or anything. I didnt think of it as nothing more than a friendly gesture.
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