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Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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That no matter how high I think my morals and standards are, I can be over-come with temptation just like anyone else, so, be careful what you say you would never do.
I learned that intelligence is overrated and that just because I am smart and correct does not mean that I am right...most people are simpletons and believe what they want irregardless of reality and facts.
Well, after a handful of pathetic attempts I learned that it's a waste of time to try to "win someone over" if they aren't interested in you to begin with. I'm sure I ended up in the "creep zone" by just being what I thought was nice, even when taking my motives into account. That movie crap is just that, crap.
I also realized that the old adage "Don't waste your time on someone unwilling to waste their time on you." is truly one of the wisest quotes about relationships.
Did I totally miss the point of the question?
that's what i've come to learn as well, the hard way i'm afraid...i recently read this somewhere: "don't reserve a space in your heart for someone that doesn't make an effort to stay there"
That after 18~or so years of my mother telling me i was special not a single girl seemed to concur.
At that point I realized I had tried a lot with little success, but nothing hardly ever changes it.
22 now, nothings really changed, a few women came and went, but none of them were the ones I wanted, just those I had the opportunity to take and so I did to not be completely empty-handed.
When I was in my first two years of high school, I was super nice and sensitive to girls. But they all were leery of really nice guys, and the douchebags got all the action anyway. I didn't become a douchebag, per se, but I've had a somewhat more sex-oriented outlook since then, and for the most part it's paid off. I'm still chivalrous and nice, but nowadays I have no problem with not waiting on her hand and foot and trying to woo her like in the movies. I'm also quite fond of one-night stands, which would have appalled sophomore-in-high-school-me.
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