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Old 12-22-2011, 07:42 AM
 
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I'm not mocking, just curious as to why she settles.
As I said previously, who knows what other people are thinking or feeling. You don't know the inner dynamics of their relationship.

She is either happy with her situation or isn't ready to confront his infidelities yet. Either which way it's her life and unless you have some vested interest in her as a person, why even bother with this?

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Old 12-22-2011, 07:44 AM
 
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I suggest focusing on the things that are important in life rather than busybodying into someones business....

Workout and lose some weight

Improve self image

Find a hobby besides stalking and worrying about who someone else is boinking
Lmao I'm probably in better shape than you
And seeing as I am minding my own business why don't you? Isn't this like the third time you've posted here on this thread? If it disturbs you so much, don't read it
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Old 12-22-2011, 07:49 AM
 
Location: NC
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Lmao I'm probably in better shape than you
And seeing as I am minding my own business why don't you? Isn't this like the third time you've posted here on this thread? If it disturbs you so much, don't read it
I was just offering advice, yet your personally attack.

Bitter is just bitter...

You should let go of it...

Also highly doubt you are in better shape, lol unless you are sub 12% bodyfat and carry 200lbs of lean muscle
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Old 12-22-2011, 07:56 AM
 
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I was just offering advice, yet your personally attack.

Bitter is just bitter...

You should let go of it...

Also highly doubt you are in better shape, lol unless you are sub 12% bodyfat and carry 200lbs of lean muscle
Lmao, so you're coming across as a little insecure, I see
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Old 12-22-2011, 08:04 AM
 
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And you're coming across as condescending.

Largely why many of us have decided not to contribute further to this thread.

Apparently, you have your opinion and we're all entitled to it.
Not so much condescending, I just don't take personal attacks so well.
Like I said don't hate the messenger hate the message.
Or in Christian terms, don't hate the sinner, hate the sin. So I've gotten posts saying to cut my ties with him. Or mind my own business. It is my business when he's talking to me. Anyway I wasn't looking for advice. Just throwing it out there, maybe inspiring a few married people to pay more attention to each other.
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Old 12-22-2011, 08:15 AM
 
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I actually changed my mind about the post after I wrote it and deleted it, however you obviously saw it before the delete.

Hey ho.

You are being condescending to responders. So many people are asking "why do you care?", or "how is it your business?", or "how do you know so much about them ?" and "how do you know all you hear is true?"

Others have offered opinions, and you have been dismissive of all of them who don't agree with you, and seemingly unwilling to enter discussion, alluding to the fact that you are somehow superior, and making childish jibes.

Counts as condescending to me.

Good luck with the rest of your thread


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Not so much condescending, I just don't take personal attacks so well.
Like I said don't hate the messenger hate the message.
Or in Christian terms, don't hate the sinner, hate the sin. So I've gotten posts saying to cut my ties with him. Or mind my own business. It is my business when he's talking to me. Anyway I wasn't looking for advice. Just throwing it out there, maybe inspiring a few married people to pay more attention to each other.
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Old 12-22-2011, 08:25 AM
 
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I actually changed my mind about the post after I wrote it and deleted it, however you obviously saw it before the delete.

Hey ho.

You are being condescending to responders. So many people are asking "why do you care?", or "how is it your business?", or "how do you know so much about them ?" and "how do you know all you hear is true?"

Others have offered opinions, and you have been dismissive of all of them who don't agree with you, and seemingly unwilling to enter discussion, alluding to the fact that you are somehow superior, and making childish jibes.

Counts as condescending to me.

Good luck with the rest of your thread
I don't think I've been condescending, but you are entitled to your opinion.
Good luck to you as well.
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Old 12-22-2011, 10:17 AM
 
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I don't think I've been condescending, but you are entitled to your opinion.
Good luck to you as well.
Yeah. It's pretty much consensus. You've been condescending and dismissive of anyone who might have a different opinion, which makes us wonder why you bothered to post at all. Heck the entire original post of the thread is a bit that way, namely that you feel that a woman trying to remain in an obviously damaged marriage is obviously desperate. Trust me. I don't have an agenda, nor does anybody else in the thread who disagrees with you. So dispense with the pop psychology already and realize that maybe, just maybe, there are different possible answers to your question.
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Old 12-22-2011, 07:31 PM
 
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Yeah. It's pretty much consensus. You've been condescending and dismissive of anyone who might have a different opinion, which makes us wonder why you bothered to post at all. Heck the entire original post of the thread is a bit that way, namely that you feel that a woman trying to remain in an obviously damaged marriage is obviously desperate. Trust me. I don't have an agenda, nor does anybody else in the thread who disagrees with you. So dispense with the pop psychology already and realize that maybe, just maybe, there are different possible answers to your question.
Idk why you think you're some kind of armchair quarterback, cheering on your fellow comrades, taking their negative spins on my original post or not. Nevertheless it really doesn't matter, because you are wrong. I don't even have an agenda. LOL I just have a Helluva lot more interesting real life people that I associate with than most, I guess.
Pop psychology's got nothin' on me, baby
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Old 12-22-2011, 07:36 PM
 
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Idk why you think you're some kind of armchair quarterback, cheering on your fellow comrades, taking their negative spins on my original post or not. Nevertheless it really doesn't matter, because you are wrong. I don't even have an agenda. LOL I just have a Helluva lot more interesting real life people that I associate with than most, I guess.
Pop psychology's got nothin' on me, baby
Don't post then if you don't want other opinions
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