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Old 12-21-2011, 07:08 AM
 
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I know a playboy. He chases women like there is no tomorrow, Openly. And the women knowing he's married do not turn him down. He's a good looking man. He has a lot of money & he is very charming (when he lays it on thick.)
His wife has the best of everything. She makes a fraction of what he makes. New vehicle, vacations every year, mini vacations, too. She has to know what is going on. He's had women call his home number many times, never to "get caught", yet. I wonder why she hasn't looked at his cell phone bill, also.
So I think that she believes ignorance is bliss. All I know is the signs are there for her. And she refuses to see them.
Makes me think she's desperate to stay married to a sleazebag.
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:28 AM
 
Location: NC
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I know a playboy. He chases women like there is no tomorrow, Openly. And the women knowing he's married do not turn him down. He's a good looking man. He has a lot of money & he is very charming (when he lays it on thick.)
His wife has the best of everything. She makes a fraction of what he makes. New vehicle, vacations every year, mini vacations, too. She has to know what is going on. He's had women call his home number many times, never to "get caught", yet. I wonder why she hasn't looked at his cell phone bill, also.
So I think that she believes ignorance is bliss. All I know is the signs are there for her. And she refuses to see them.
Makes me think she's desperate to stay married to a sleazebag.
Huge waste of time and emotions to worry about what this man is doing or his wife....


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Old 12-21-2011, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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Not everyone marries for love
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:37 AM
 
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Well, what do you expect? If many people had the choice to live her lifestyle when all they have to do is look past some things, who would say no? She can just as easily go have her fun, and they can both come back to security, knowing they have someone who always (well, supposed to) be there. It's the ultimate "have your cake and eat it too (I hate that saying).

People are working for a good life everywhere, so the opportunity comes, many will take it even if there are drawbacks. Nothing is perfect.
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:37 AM
 
Location: State of Being
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Not everyone marries for love
And not anyone else's business as to the "whys" of other people's relationships.
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:47 AM
 
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I know a playboy. He chases women like there is no tomorrow, Openly. And the women knowing he's married do not turn him down. He's a good looking man. He has a lot of money & he is very charming (when he lays it on thick.)
His wife has the best of everything. She makes a fraction of what he makes. New vehicle, vacations every year, mini vacations, too. She has to know what is going on. He's had women call his home number many times, never to "get caught", yet. I wonder why she hasn't looked at his cell phone bill, also.
So I think that she believes ignorance is bliss. All I know is the signs are there for her. And she refuses to see them.
Makes me think she's desperate to stay married to a sleazebag.
Maybe she doesn't get his cell phone bill if it's company issued.

Maybe she has someone else on the side too.

Maybe she can't have sex or has some physical issue that prevents her from being intimate and this is something they agreed on?

Or maybe she does know, and this situation works for both. She gets her material things and he gets to be a playboy.
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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I know a playboy. He chases women like there is no tomorrow, Openly. And the women knowing he's married do not turn him down. He's a good looking man. He has a lot of money & he is very charming (when he lays it on thick.)
His wife has the best of everything. She makes a fraction of what he makes. New vehicle, vacations every year, mini vacations, too. She has to know what is going on. He's had women call his home number many times, never to "get caught", yet. I wonder why she hasn't looked at his cell phone bill, also.
So I think that she believes ignorance is bliss. All I know is the signs are there for her. And she refuses to see them.
Makes me think she's desperate to stay married to a sleazebag.
Is it possible that they have an "OPEN MARRIAGE"?
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Old 12-21-2011, 08:04 AM
 
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They aren't in an open marriage. And for the people saying it's not my business, maybe you're up to something as well.
Obviously I'm not turning the guy in. It could be that this is the price she pays for that lifestyle. Or maybe she does have someone on the side. And they do have sex, so that's not the issue. If she found out, according to him, she'd divorce him A.S.A.P.
So I will once again just watch this unfold.
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Old 12-21-2011, 08:08 AM
 
Location: NC
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They aren't in an open marriage. And for the people saying it's not my business, maybe you're up to something as well.
Obviously I'm not turning the guy in. It could be that this is the price she pays for that lifestyle. Or maybe she does have someone on the side. And they do have sex, so that's not the issue. If she found out, according to him, she'd divorce him A.S.A.P.
So I will once again just watch this unfold.
Gee... nice attack on the suggestion...

I believe in Karma...

Things will find balance...

If you spend so much negative energy worrying about others negative stuff, it will weigh on your psyche, believe it or not.

Negatives and worrying cause health issues, lead to reduce physical presence/premature aging, and people notice a bad "air" about those who are always negative/worrying.


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Old 12-21-2011, 08:15 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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How do you know all this ?

Are you stalking them or something ?
You seem to know an awful lot about it.

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They aren't in an open marriage. And for the people saying it's not my business, maybe you're up to something as well.
Obviously I'm not turning the guy in. It could be that this is the price she pays for that lifestyle. Or maybe she does have someone on the side. And they do have sex, so that's not the issue. If she found out, according to him, she'd divorce him A.S.A.P.
So I will once again just watch this unfold.
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