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Old 01-15-2012, 05:43 PM
 
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That sucks. Sorry to hear that. Maybe just go anyway? who knows, maybe you'll have a good time?
I will go, I'm not one to bail just cause I don't feel like it and just in case I do have a good time anyways. so we'll see. I'm just not excited.
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Old 01-15-2012, 05:44 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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Have you done anything for your own enjoyment lately? Maybe that'd put a little vigor back into ya. Spa day, a drive, whatever makes you happy.
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Old 01-15-2012, 05:48 PM
 
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Have you done anything for your own enjoyment lately? Maybe that'd put a little vigor back into ya. Spa day, a drive, whatever makes you happy.
I try but I'm a little broke. I see some friends but most of them are too wrapped up in their lives to hang out with me. the only vigorous thing I have right now is dancing but that's only once a week. I'm doing what I can.
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Old 01-15-2012, 05:50 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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Well, I'm sorry to hear that. If there was a way for me to buy you a drink over the 'net... lol.
Good luck.
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Old 01-15-2012, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I don't like being asked to "hang out" or go on a date via text. it shows laziness to me. and lazy=lack of interest. Maybe its my insecurity coming out cause most men I meet pretend they like me just to string me along cause they think they're gonna get some and then they bail..and the major texters are the biggest offenders of this. I don't mind texting for quick things..but when it replaces real communication, that bothers me.
Interesting. To me text is just another form of communication and I don't associate it with a certain attitude. Anyways, it's interesting to hear another viewpoint
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Old 01-15-2012, 09:40 PM
 
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Interesting. To me text is just another form of communication and I don't associate it with a certain attitude. Anyways, it's interesting to hear another viewpoint
ya..I think its very informal. texting is for buddies. I text my friends..but even that is very minor information. we call each other for most things.
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Old 01-15-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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I know and I put up with the texting but due to my past experiences, I don't trust men who only text. texting here and there, but mostly calling me, doesn't really bother me
I'm a different guy I guess. I know I have my urges and yes I totally wanted to rip her clothes off and do the nasty, hell we watched the movies in my bed. She said no sex, and I put my urges in check and was the good guy, like I always am.

It took a ton of restraint, but it can be done.
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Old 01-15-2012, 09:54 PM
 
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I'm a different guy I guess. I know I have my urges and yes I totally wanted to rip her clothes off and do the nasty, hell we watched the movies in my bed. She said no sex, and I put my urges in check and was the good guy, like I always am.

It took a ton of restraint, but it can be done.
ha, I believe you. but taht's the thing..I can't control myself so I don't put myself in situations where I'm not ready to lose control. which is why I don't go over to some guys house in the evening to watch a movie. I mean if I'm just snuggling up to the guy then I can keep myself in check but next thing you know, he kisses me and then that's when its all over so I don't even bother putting myself in that situation until I'm ready.
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Old 01-15-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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ha, I believe you. but taht's the thing..I can't control myself so I don't put myself in situations where I'm not ready to lose control. which is why I don't go over to some guys house in the evening to watch a movie. I mean if I'm just snuggling up to the guy then I can keep myself in check but next thing you know, he kisses me and then that's when its all over so I don't even bother putting myself in that situation until I'm ready.
And that's a good way to be if you know yourself well enough to stop yourself.

I've got a pretty strong will, So I know if I can't do something, I can restrain myself..most of the time. LOL
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Old 01-15-2012, 10:03 PM
 
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And that's a good way to be if you know yourself well enough to stop yourself.

I've got a pretty strong will, So I know if I can't do something, I can restrain myself..most of the time. LOL
ya I used to try to tell myself that I can control myself but I can't. ha, oh well.
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