How do you deal with rejection? (man, attractive, friends, definition)
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
OP, you have to rise to the challenge and ask her if she would like to go out sometime. If you don't do it with this one, then who are you going to do it with in the future? Nobody, because you will cower every single time.
I developed an incredible crush on a co-worker and for reasons I can not go into, I know there is no chance of me ever being able to act upon it and approach her. I feel for starters she is way above me in her league. It is difficult enough at work to keep at my job and its responsibilities already. I get very few chances to see her during the day. Usually it is at the employee lounge or if we cross paths in the back office. There is too much close-knittedness to our company and it would be the death spiral for me if others got wind of my interest in her and embarked upon the gossip route. My heart aches but I know intellectually I have to let this go. I have gotten as crazy as to look at her facebook page and I feel like I am snooping into her life and that is not how I want to be. I would just want her to know I think she is most beautiful women I have ever seen but there is no way of doing that without coming across as a creep. How does one get over a crush?
It's much much much much worse to not even try at all.
Believe it or not. I would rather get rejected then wonder what if?
There's has been a few opportunities that I have lost recently which I could have pretty had a good chance of dating them but I was too much of a wuss to deal with the possibility of rejection and now I'm kicking myself for it. So now I'm learning to approach.
My advice: grow a pair, puff out your chest and don't take it personally if she rejects you.
The best remedy is to talk to more women at one time so that way you don't become over obsessed with one and it may fail.
I hate rejection, and take it very personally for years. Which is why I hardly ever date. It takes so much for me to get over breaking up. And I hate rejecting others.
I hate rejection, and take it very personally for years. Which is why I hardly ever date. It takes so much for me to get over breaking up. And I hate rejecting others.
If you don't give yourself a chance then you are already rejecting yourself to begin with.
If you don't give yourself a chance then you are already rejecting yourself to begin with.
For some rejecting themselves is better than someone else rejecting them. It's a control thing. Don't want to give anyone else that satisfaction and power of turning you down.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
..JPG)
