Do you plan to be Single in your life with no kids ever? (date, women)

[stick2dascript]

Might be, I made alot of mistakes earlier and I'm behind the curve, don't make much money and I'm closing in on 40 and I'm a black male.

Could just be thstbim toast, I have no kids either. I get no responses on dating sites at all.

[Back to NE]

I knew from a young age that I probably didn't want kids (I'm male). But this knowledge has hurt my relationship options progressively over the years. You either have to adopt another woman's kids or have them with her, which cuts your dating pool down 90% or more.

And even when I was thinking I might come around and go for the single moms, their seriousness, money-seeking behavior, and narrow-mindedness (mostly just concerned with their kids), was the ultimate turn-off, the anti-romance.

So if you don't want to be single guys, you're best off wanting kids.

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by chielgirl

I chose to be sterilized at a young age.
Was married for a short time a long time ago.

Been divorced for almost 30 years.

I love my life, not looking for a ltr.
I travel all over Europe and the world as I choose.

Would you prefer a relationship down the road? So you are into STR?

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by crazy carrie

so by this logic...you could have as many relationships with as many people as you wanted? even "exclusive" ones since single is single? So cheating only exists in marriages, and being in a relationship for a few years means it's okay to sleep with someone else...since you're single and all.

And I guess gay people are always single? Since they can't get married in most states...

If you are NOT married then you are Single. Cheating is a different topic.

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by nowitsshowtime

I have a feeling based on how literal you are in regards to this, you are going to be the single person with no kids ever in your life.

I would like to be Single and no kids as it is now.

[Ascension2012]

Originally Posted by Info Guy

I would like to be Single and no kids as it is now.

Dont worry dude, youre not alone. At least you can think for yourself and do what makes you happy. Don't ever change.

[D. Scott]

Originally Posted by Red On The Noodle

Yes. That's pretty much the way it's ending up

I am heading toward that fast at age 36 i think. I do miss aspects of having a close, committed relationship. I have frequently posted about this.

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by findly185

I plan to never get married (doesn't mean I want to be single) and I never want to have children.
I do want a LTR with someone I can grow old with. Just don't want the ceremony, title, name change, division of assets etc.

Same thinking as me.

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by stick2dascript

Might be, I made alot of mistakes earlier and I'm behind the curve, don't make much money and I'm closing in on 40 and I'm a black male.

Could just be thstbim toast, I have no kids either. I get no responses on dating sites at all.

What does you being Black have to do with this?

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by misiu007

Dont worry dude, youre not alone. At least you can think for yourself and do what makes you happy. Don't ever change.

I know. I am very happy. This is exactly what I wanted. I do want a relationship though.