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I'm not saying that men don't want an attractive mate - I'm saying that many men don't want a woman that is ONLY attractive. And your posts pretty much describe women whose only attributes are that she looks good and keeps her mouth shut.
thats how I pick it up too....no one said a man doesnt want someone he finds attractive. But men are not as vain as she may think, looks are just a small part of what makes a woman attractive...thats probably a foreign concept for some people though.
Agreed. My wording can lead to cause for offense. I understand that. Just ignore that part if you don't care for it.
However why shouldn't a woman keep quiet and do your laundry if you are providing for her? Small price to pay for being provided for in my opinion.
Bit now we aren't arguing about anything if you take that back?
Every time I travel I forget to pack underwear, so I buy a 3 pack at target or something. I literally have 97 boxers. Her folding my underwear isn't really an issue.
thats how I pick it up too....no one said a man doesnt want someone he finds attractive. But men are not as vain as she may think, looks are just a small part of what makes a woman attractive...thats probably a foreign concept for some people though.
I agree that no man wants to be with a woman who has nothing else to offer but beauty.
However I am talking in a strictly first glance sense because the truth is that no man is going to waste his time on a woman and getting to know all the other fabulous things about her if he doesn't find her attractive in the first place.
Women seem to have this ideal fantasy that men can see what all we have to offer and that our looks don't matter as much as all of those other things on a first impression.
Bit now we aren't arguing about anything if you take that back?
Every time I travel I forget to pack underwear, so I buy a 3 pack at target or something. I literally have 97 boxers. Her folding my underwear isn't really an issue.
If you want to argue the point then let's.
I think women should be expected to keep quiet and do the housework if they want a gentleman who provides for them.
My 2 cents.
Not saying my opinion is the only way or that I am right and everyone else is wrong.
I just want to see what the opinion of men on this board happens to be.
I think women should be expected to keep quiet and do the housework if they want a gentleman who provides for them.
My 2 cents.
Not saying my opinion is the only way or that I am right and everyone else is wrong.
I just want to see what the opinion of men on this board happens to be.
That is not what you said. You said men want a woman that can take some responsibility of their plate, validate them as a leader, and look good doing it.
There is a very niche group of men that want that in 2013.
That is not what you said. You said men want a woman that can take some responsibility of their plate, validate them as a leader, and look good doing it.
There is a very niche group of men that want that in 2013.
Yes. I stand by that statement.
It is my view. Not everyone agrees. I never said they had to. I just think most men agree even if they don't say it in public anymore because it isn't a popular opinion due to the feminist movement.
It is my opinion that men want a woman that looks good, take responsibility for things like housework, children ect. and if she has a problem that she honestly needs help with that she should go to her man and ask because that validates the mans status as a leader in the household, not the leader of the household by the way, as well as serving to show the man that he is needed which is something that all humans need. Everyone wants to feel needed.
and if she has a problem that she honestly needs help with that she should go to her man and ask because that validates the mans status as a leader in the household, not the leader of the household by the way
Actually, what you said was:
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Men want a lady who can handle what he needs her to in order to minimize his responsibilities, keep her mouth shut unless she needs to come to him for help to validate his leadership status every once in awhile and look damn good while doing it.
You're big on the whole "implied" thing... What exactly does this imply? That she keeps her mouth shut unless she needs to come to him for help as "one" of the leaders in the household with her being the other one? Erm...huh?
You're big on the whole "implied" thing... What exactly does this imply? That she keeps her mouth shut unless she needs to come to him for help as "one" of the leaders in the household with her being the other one?
Yes. There can be more than one leader in the household. Particularly if their are children present.
The woman leads the household while the man goes and and provides and if she has a problem she consults with the man. How is this a foreign concept?
No one man can rule it all you know. Leadership is a team effort. No one does it alone.
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What exactly does this imply? That she keeps her mouth shut unless she needs to come to him for help as "one" of the leaders in the household with her being the other one? Erm...huh?