She left my place in the middle of the night after sex. (call, bf)
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I don't see the problem here. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy. They have sex, next day she texts him and wants to see him again. Why are you complicating things?
Where? She wants to see him again, she texted him to say good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of him, where's the red flag again?
I'd be pretty concerned about the fact that she slept with him on the first date, left in the middle of the night, and then the next morning "can't stop thinking about" him. That kind of behavior can definitely be a warning sign. That said, it is NOT absolute. She could be normal enough and it was just weird circumstances, but OP should tread carefully with this one.
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Originally Posted by Bosco55David
I'd be pretty concerned about the fact that she slept with him on the first date, left in the middle of the night, and then the next morning "can't stop thinking about" him. That kind of behavior can definitely be a warning sign. That said, it is NOT absolute. She could be normal enough and it was just weird circumstances, but OP should tread carefully with this one.
Just my 2 cents.
Oh, ok, makes sense now. But that's assuming we know the whole story. They met on Wednesday and she came over another night. Not sure about the gap in between, how much they talked, what they said. But she left early on her own. Doesn't sound like she's clinging so far. <shrug> No telling really. Doesn't sound like red flags to me yet though.
I'd be pretty concerned about the fact that she slept with him on the first date, left in the middle of the night, and then the next morning "can't stop thinking about" him. That kind of behavior can definitely be a warning sign. That said, it is NOT absolute. She could be normal enough and it was just weird circumstances, but OP should tread carefully with this one.
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