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I was raised by both parents. I just thought it was weird that the woman I met online left in the middle of the night after sex. But after reading the responses, I can understand how she would feel uncomfortable in someone else's place, especially since we only knew each other for a week.
It all sounds good to me, anonymous. It sounds like the two of you are really into one another. I wouldn't worry about it at all, at this point. I would just go have fun with someone I care about. This is a good thing.
You don't think that she is now? Do you really think you're the only one she has met on a dating site and had sex so fast?
I was reading your first post and it sounds like she was practically begging to come over and have sex. I wouldn't get too comfortable with her.
I think you have a good point. The fact that she was willing to come to my bed and have sex with me so soon shows her intentions. Saturday night was only the second night I met her in person. The first time I met her in person was Wednesday night (a week ago). Before we met in person, we had texted each other for about two weeks after meeting online. We had sex again on Sunday night after dinner.
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Originally Posted by Caltovegas
I know this may sound foreign to some but at some point your going to have to get to know each other beyond sex. Then again there's a man rule when initial dating. Get as much as you can while you can because at some point she's going to cut you off.
This is also true, especially for online dating, whereas the women have so many men contacting them everyday.
I was sheltered growing up, because my parents were extremely overprotective. But I live by myself at an apartment, and I have dated online for years. However, I am afraid of the marriage thing because of problems in my parents' marriage.
I was heavily sheltered myself when I was growing up; was never allowed to go out, date or even go out with friends. Years later my mom finally admitted that she was being overprotective of me (being the first born). I live alone in a house, but I gave up on online dating sites years ago because they simply don't work.
I was sheltered growing up, because my parents were extremely overprotective. But I live by myself at an apartment, and I have dated online for years. However, I am afraid of the marriage thing because of problems in my parents' marriage.
Awwww, this explains it. I'm sure she likes you and would still like you even if she was slimmer.
But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me. She said that she takes walks and she goes to the gym twice a week. I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me. She said that she takes walks and she goes to the gym twice a week. I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
well it wasn't a problem when you wanted to get laid.
I think you have a good point. The fact that she was willing to come to my bed and have sex with me so soon shows her intentions. Saturday night was only the second night I met her in person. The first time I met her in person was Wednesday night (a week ago). Before we met in person, we had texted each other for about two weeks after meeting online. We had sex again on Sunday night after dinner.
And what "intentions" does she show? And the fact that you were ready and willing to have sex with her probably shows her your intentions as well.
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But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me. She said that she takes walks and she goes to the gym twice a week. I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
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Originally Posted by Doll Eyes
well it wasn't a problem when you wanted to get laid.
I agree with you doll...especially on the eye-roll
Here I was thinking he was a nice guy...and then I get to the last page and read his comments about her weight.
You aren't doing her any favors...if her weight is an issue for you, then don't go out with her. Sheesh!
But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me. She said that she takes walks and she goes to the gym twice a week. I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
A person can eventually leave another person for any reason.
But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me. She said that she takes walks and she goes to the gym twice a week. I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
"But I will be honest. Her weight definitely bothers me"
Then why are you seeing her. Your Johnson didn't seem to care
I just don't want to risk going through all the drama and frustration in a relationship and then she ditches me for someone else she meets online.
Like said above: "You don't find her attractive" so theres no great loss. Don't quite get the logic?
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I would just go have fun with someone I care about. This is a good thing. 
