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I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
You didn't have the decency to talk to her about your honest feelings. You kicked her to the curb, after all the sex you had with her, with text message. I seriously hope that you don't come back in a few weeks hurt over a text that you got from the new other lady with whom you are beginning a journey.
I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
Hey, we're always telling people to be honest here and he was. I think you did the right thing OP. otherwise lady no. 1 would be asking, he says he wants to be friends, what does that mean.....
So, yes it might have hurt her, but she knows where he stands and can move on.
You didn't have the decency to talk to her about your honest feelings. You kicked her to the curb, after all the sex you had with her, with text message. I seriously hope that you don't come back in a few weeks hurt over a text that you got from the new other lady with whom you are beginning a journey.
There is no new other lady he's beginning a "journey" with. He made it up to get rid of her.
I texted this woman last night and told her that I like her but we should just be friends. In the text, I told her that a lady whom I also met online awhile back contacted me yesterday and I have more in common with this other lady, and I wanted to begin a journey with this other lady and see how it goes. She replied that she was glad that I said that, and she felt the same way. So it is better just to be honest with your feelings and move on.
Oh mark my words your nightmare has just begun. I sense a false rape charge in your future. Dumping her like that you know she will get even with you one way or the other. No hell hath fury like a woman scorned and all that.
I met this woman online. She ignored me previously on a different dating site (Plenty of Fish) a year ago, but recently, she became interested on OkCupid. She had nice pictures of herself online (two pictures were of her face and one picture was a full picture which showed that she had a curvy body. But she was overweight when I met her in person on Wednesday night at a restaurant. So I think that picture was an older picture. On Friday night, she texted me and asked me "Are you sure that you don't want to come over tonight?" after I texted her that I couldn't because I will be at a birthday party late that night after work. Last night, after work, she came to my place and we watched TV. We drank wine, ate some chips, and went to bed. After some foreplay, I put the condom on, and we had sex. I fell asleep shortly thereafter. But at about 3:15 am, she told me that she couldn't sleep and she would go home. That has never happened to me before! I asked if I could walk her to her car, but she declined. But she still wants to go on another date with me tonight at a restaurant downtown. She texted me this morning when I was at the gym to tell me good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of me. Has this happened to any of you before? What are you thoughts on this?
Oh mark my words your nightmare has just begun. I sense a false rape charge in your future. Dumping her like that you know she will get even with you one way or the other. No hell hath fury like a woman scorned and all that.
This is SO true.
You are thinking in your head:"Oh, she took that well. Alot better than I thought."
She's thinking:"Oh he will pay...for sure!! Mark my words Mr. Text dumper."
I met this woman online. She ignored me previously on a different dating site (Plenty of Fish) a year ago, but recently, she became interested on OkCupid. She had nice pictures of herself online (two pictures were of her face and one picture was a full picture which showed that she had a curvy body. But she was overweight when I met her in person on Wednesday night at a restaurant. So I think that picture was an older picture. On Friday night, she texted me and asked me "Are you sure that you don't want to come over tonight?" after I texted her that I couldn't because I will be at a birthday party late that night after work. Last night, after work, she came to my place and we watched TV. We drank wine, ate some chips, and went to bed. After some foreplay, I put the condom on, and we had sex. I fell asleep shortly thereafter. But at about 3:15 am, she told me that she couldn't sleep and she would go home. That has never happened to me before! I asked if I could walk her to her car, but she declined. But she still wants to go on another date with me tonight at a restaurant downtown. She texted me this morning when I was at the gym to tell me good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of me. Has this happened to any of you before? What are you thoughts on this?
No it's never happened to me and it never will.
It sounds like you just banged a fat woman who had to get her needs met. I think that you should have ended the date as soon as you had saw that she was clearly overweight.
Another way you could have handled it was just to take her to a hotel. After you finish up you bounce out of there and keep things simple. There's no need to let her know where you live or anything about your personal life.
It sounds like you just banged a fat woman who had to get her needs met. I think that you should have ended the date as soon as you had saw that she was clearly overweight.
Another way you could have handled it was just to take her to a hotel. After you finish up you bounce out of there and keep things simple. There's no need to let her know where you live or anything about your personal life.
But I wouldn't have just banged a woman at a hotel and left her. I am looking for a relationship, but she just wasn't the person for me.
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