She left my place in the middle of the night after sex. (dating, women)
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I met this woman online. She ignored me previously on a different dating site (Plenty of Fish) a year ago, but recently, she became interested on OkCupid. She had nice pictures of herself online (two pictures were of her face and one picture was a full picture which showed that she had a curvy body. But she was overweight when I met her in person on Wednesday night at a restaurant. So I think that picture was an older picture. On Friday night, she texted me and asked me "Are you sure that you don't want to come over tonight?" after I texted her that I couldn't because I will be at a birthday party late that night after work. Last night, after work, she came to my place and we watched TV. We drank wine, ate some chips, and went to bed. After some foreplay, I put the condom on, and we had sex. I fell asleep shortly thereafter. But at about 3:15 am, she told me that she couldn't sleep and she would go home. That has never happened to me before! I asked if I could walk her to her car, but she declined. But she still wants to go on another date with me tonight at a restaurant downtown. She texted me this morning when I was at the gym to tell me good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of me. Has this happened to any of you before? What are you thoughts on this?
Hmmmm. There you are...ha ha. There was a thread about this a little bit ago from the female view point. I'm on a mobile and can't link, but I'm sure someone else will.
I won't waste time offering the details of what she may have been thinking. I'll just agree with Timmyy. And if it bugs you that badly, ask her about it.
Hi everyone
Has this happened to any of you before? What are you thoughts on this?
Maybe she took it upon herself to leave so she wouldn't have to feel like she was overstaying her welcome. Maybe she didn't want you to see her in the morning. Maybe she has a fear of intimacy. Maybe she didn't want to take care of her bathroom needs at your place. Who knows?
You might have just been a booty call. Women can be just like guys..Don't overthink it. It is what it is. I'm sure she'll want to hook up again, when she's in the mood...
Or, possibly she didn't want you to see her unkept...Waking up and looking the way she would without applying makeup, taking a shower, doing her hair, etc..
Or, she had somewhere important to be in the morning...
Or, so many guys did this to her and it had her wondering just as you are, and now she is doing the same...Games...
Or, we are all just reading too much into everything!
It's an either or..
Last edited by supermanpansy; 02-26-2012 at 03:19 PM..
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