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Old 02-26-2012, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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I'm not so sure. Marilyn might have a point there. The woman was happy to go out with the OP and then was so eager to see him again that she invited herself over, but then after they DTD, she took off. Something could have happened there that turned her off or gave her a weird vibe...something along those lines.

It's a possibility.

OP, did you fart?
She left out this part of the original post though.

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But she still wants to go on another date with me tonight at a restaurant downtown. She texted me this morning when I was at the gym to tell me good morning and she couldn't stop thinking of me.
While I suppose it's not out of the realm of possibility that this girl could be playing head games, it looks to me like she definitely wants to make something out of this.
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Old 02-26-2012, 06:47 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I'd be pretty concerned about the fact that she slept with him on the first date, left in the middle of the night, and then the next morning "can't stop thinking about" him. That kind of behavior can definitely be a warning sign. That said, it is NOT absolute. She could be normal enough and it was just weird circumstances, but OP should tread carefully with this one.

Just my 2 cents.
Don't forget she ignored him on another site and her photos were old and basically misrepresentative.

I agree, she sounds flaky. Though, she may be fine for some short lived companionship.
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Old 02-26-2012, 06:51 PM
 
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She left out this part of the original post though.


Marilyn didn't write the OP.

I was referring to what she said about how something would have to turn her off in order for her to take off after sex (paraphrasing, too lazy to scroll).
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Old 02-26-2012, 06:53 PM
 
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Don't forget she ignored him on another site and her photos were old and basically misrepresentative.
Yeah...true...I don't know, OP. If it were me, I'd just lay off entirely. Not call, text, etc. You really can't possibly know why unless you ask her and she gives you a true answer.
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Old 02-26-2012, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Maybe she was afraid you would catch her standing while taking a whiz.
Omg I tried to rep you! That was so funny!!! Still cracking up!
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Old 02-26-2012, 07:02 PM
 
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Hey this little porker you boinked...was her name Oprah?
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Old 02-26-2012, 07:03 PM
 
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46 posts into over thinking this.
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Old 02-26-2012, 07:04 PM
 
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Again, what is the issue?
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Old 02-26-2012, 07:04 PM
 
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She left out this part of the original post though.



While I suppose it's not out of the realm of possibility that this girl could be playing head games, it looks to me like she definitely wants to make something out of this.
Something seems "off" about her to me, but she's ready sex and you know how some men are. They'll ignore the obvious until it's too late.
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Old 02-26-2012, 07:06 PM
 
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Yeah...true...I don't know, OP. If it were me, I'd just lay off entirely. Not call, text, etc. You really can't possibly know why unless you ask her and she gives you a true answer.
He won't. He's a man. He'll believe he can "handle" it.

Whereas we women recognize "strange" immediately and not think twice about cutting off future contact.
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