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Old 03-21-2012, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Where do people see these men falling for teens and early 20s women?
I don't see it ,not in my area.

As a matter of fact,I see young guys going after women 30+ moreso than the opposite.
Then again,a lot of teens and women in their early 20s are fat,at least in my area. I'm talking about 300 pounds fat.

I brought this up because I live in an area that has quite an abundance of strip clubs. And on the news, they are often busting these clubs for employing 14 year old girls as strippers. Many of them start as young as 14. Obviously, if these clubs keep hiring these young girls, men must find something very attractive about them at that age.

 
Old 03-21-2012, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Still don't see these attractive teens everyone keeps talking about.
I work as a sub school nurse,and I don't see it.

What if someone was an ugly teen,and look better as they got older?

Does a 300 pound teen look better than a 140 pound 35 year old?

I have seen a 40 year old woman in a store get more male attention than a 20 year old.
True, not all young, fit, attractive and youthful looking girls are a representation of all teens--but I think men tend to ignore the ugly, fats one like they do women in all age groups.
 
Old 03-21-2012, 05:54 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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18 years old might be the age of consent - but I have yet to meet an 18 year old that I thought - gee - wouldn't it be great if I could marry that guy! I'm 35 years old. To me, 18 year old boys look like boys.

Look - if you are in your 30's, 40's, 50's, etc. and you want to chase after teenagers - knock yourselves out. I'm a happily married 35 year old. Honestly, it's no skin off my back. But it's still icky.
i doubt marriage is on most guys minds when theyre looking at an attractive teenage girl. sex on the other hand?

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Old 03-21-2012, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Naw, I'm not interested in a teenager.

I'm old enough to be their father and they will only go "ewwwww"
at the mere though of me leering at them.
 
Old 03-21-2012, 06:42 PM
 
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My wife and I road herd on a house filled with females...For a few years we had them by the dozen. Coming going whatever. We were the neighborhood nesting point.

My wife died when are youngest was 16 and I got to rule the house for the next five years or so.

No question in my mind that females peak earlier than we make out. Some are bombshells at 14 and well past prime at 17. Others blossom in their late teens. Very few go as late as their early twentys.

They are however still teenagers and mostly hopelessly immature. I can't imagine why a sane adult male would take interest other than to oogle the physical attributes. There are always exceptions but that is the vast majority.

I am skeptical that women reach any really stable emotional state until they are past 25 or 30...and some never do.

Dealing with women still unstable is a job that I would not want to encounter. In fact my primary reason for rejecting many possible mates after my wife died was the maturity question. Good in bed perhaps..but not much good at the breakfast table.
 
Old 03-22-2012, 10:53 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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I think the world has enough problems with the sexual abuse of children and teens. What possible good is going to come out of this topic.
True. On that note, this thread is closed.
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