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Old 03-20-2012, 02:58 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Cantabridgienne View Post
Just have her show you. What works for someone else might not work for her.
You have to remember that she is "shrugging" at the question of. What do you want?

I think they will figure this out soon enough, if they both like each other they will be fine.

 
Old 03-20-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Just have her show you. What works for someone else might not work for her.
I have no problem learning, but she wont teach me! I have straight up asked her what she enjoys. I have asked her to tell me what she wants. I always get a "whatever" or "I dont know" kind of response.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Austin
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Well, as long as you know how to get what you want, then why worry about how you get it?

not a worry at all. I just tend to like variety.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Austin
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I have no problem learning, but she wont teach me! I have straight up asked her what she enjoys. I have asked her to tell me what she wants. I always get a "whatever" or "I dont know" kind of response.

Is this going to be such a problem that you would consider not seeing her anymore?
If it's this important, you are going to have to find a way to get her to talk to you. Period.
And no amount of advice from us is going to work in the end. It's between you and her.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:02 PM
 
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Shes the first one I have never been able to please like that. Although she still enjoys sex, she said its never happened. Almost like she has just given up on it herself... which surprises me.




Shes been on top, she was really good at it! Maybe thats a clue that she enjoys it? Thanks for the tip Moon!
Yup. Don't forget about tantra and sexy foreplay. She needs to feel secure and safe and relaxed.

Good Luck
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Is this going to be such a problem that you would consider not seeing her anymore?
If it's this important, you are going to have to find a way to get her to talk to you. Period.
And no amount of advice from us is going to work in the end. It's between you and her.
Not at all! I am satisfied. My only "worry" about this is that maybe she will lose all interest in it. If that happens, I wouldn't be in the relationship much long after. As I said though, she enjoys it for now, so my only worry is that I make her happy. Its not a "problem" right now.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:08 PM
 
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I agree. I am also looking for suggestions on how to get her to open up if anyone has any.
TIME. She doesn't know you or trust you yet.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Austin
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TIME. She doesn't know you or trust you yet.
Now this is a sensible post. Thanks. I wish more people would wait before jumping ito bed. Oh well.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:11 PM
 
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A man, may not have, or be, the answer.
 
Old 03-20-2012, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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TIME. She doesn't know you or trust you yet.
Agreed. Thank for your reply. I understand its too early yet. Although, I also don't think she is lying when she says she has never...
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