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You aren't going to get any real answers becaues most men are never gonna encounter a woman with this problem.
Are you saying women don't masturbate, don't lust, don't fantasize, don't look at porn, don't enjoy a nice erotic scene in a chick flick, don't enjoy erotic novels, don't drool over male celebrities, etc.? Studies show that women do. Some admit it, many others deny it.
It is a guy thing.Do you watch porn? Men's brains are wired to respond more to visual stimuli than women. Ask Dr. Phil.
"Men are visually stimulated, which means if they are in a target-rich environment, they may well become aroused. This is not just a maturity issue; their brains are actually wired that way, which is very different from your own wiring."
I am saying to you that porn is not just a guy thing and if you think it is you're sadly mistaken! And yes I watch porn b/c that's basically my "sex life." LOL.
I am saying to you that porn is not just a guy thing and if you think it is you're sadly mistaken! And yes I watch porn b/c that's basically my "sex life." LOL.
It is assumed guys are visual because some would turn their heads to see that woman wearing a mini skirt, show big cleavage, etc. Of course someone will look at whoever is showing skin. When I go to Muslim countries like Morocco, Egypt, etc. I don’t see men turning their heads to see a woman passing by, why? Because they are not showing skin. But guess what, put a tourist who wears shorts around those women and you’ll see them staring, turning their heads, etc.. Have a handsome man in with a big package walk around wearing white spandex and you bet you will have women checking him out. There is just not that many erotic/revealing clothes for men that can be comparable to women’s clothing that show cleavage, legs, etc.
Eastern Romer,
Not sure if they are showing this study at the moment on American cable tv but I remember seeing one study done by Discovery Health showing that the vast majority of women (it said more than 89% if I remember correctly) masturbate and debunked many sexist myths about women’s sexuality. Imagine if that study was done with a lie detector! Bet that 89% would go even higher. I recommend you to check it out. That study did some fun interesting experiments and observations, some even with hidden cameras. Some of the people they interviewed and studied were staying in this hotel where it was registered that most women in the study watched porn that night on their room tv. I am not kidding, check it out.
I can imagine some women may not open up sexually with their partner in fear of being labeled negatively from their guy who still lives in the 1800s and feels sexuality is a guy thing exclusively.
It is assumed guys are visual because some would turn their heads to see that woman wearing a mini skirt, show big cleavage, etc. Of course someone will look at whoever is showing skin. When I go to Muslim countries like Morocco, Egypt, etc. I don’t see men turning their heads to see a woman passing by, why? Because they are not showing skin. But guess what, put a tourist who wears shorts around those women and you’ll see them staring, turning their heads, etc.. Have a handsome man in with a big package walk around wearing white spandex and you bet you will have women checking him out. There is just not that many erotic/revealing clothes for men that can be comparable to women’s clothing that show cleavage, legs, etc.
Eastern Romer,
Not sure if they are showing this study at the moment on American cable tv but I remember seeing one study done by Discovery Health showing that the vast majority of women (it said more than 89% if I remember correctly) masturbate and debunked many sexist myths about women’s sexuality. Imagine if that study was done with a lie detector! Bet that 89% would go even higher. I recommend you to check it out. That study did some fun interesting experiments and observations, some even with hidden cameras. Some of the people they interviewed and studied were staying in this hotel where it was registered that most women in the study watched porn that night on their room tv. I am not kidding, check it out.
I can imagine some women may not open up sexually with their partner in fear of being labeled negatively from their guy who still lives in the 1800s and feels sexuality is a guy thing exclusively.
I'm highly visual myself and also bisexual so probably bi women see similar things as straight men? (assuming). Um, I am not disagreeing with anything you said in the 1st paragraph. I don't know what E. Romer is trying to say, but I wasn't say porn isn't for men I was saying it's not ONLY for men. That's it.
I'm highly visual myself and also bisexual so probably bi women see similar things as straight men? (assuming). Um, I am not disagreeing with anything you said in the 1st paragraph. I don't know what E. Romer is trying to say, but I wasn't say porn isn't for men I was saying it's not ONLY for men. That's it.
You might be right... I am bi, and I watch porn, I am very visual, and well... yeah.. let's keep it pg-13
How would you feel if you knew your wife checked out male nude pictures, visited porn sites, etc. that showed guys that were in better shape than you? How would you feel if you found a vibrator hidden in a drawer? It is well-known that women, just like men, masturbate regardless of them having a hard time admitting it but how do guys feel about it?
I ask this because there are guys who say looking at porn shouldn't be a big deal for their wife. How about if it was the other way around? Would you be as accepting?
How would you feel if you knew your wife checked out male nude pictures, visited porn sites, etc. that showed guys that were in better shape than you? How would you feel if you found a vibrator hidden in a drawer? It is well-known that women, just like men, masturbate regardless of them having a hard time admitting it but how do guys feel about it?
I ask this because there are guys who say looking at porn shouldn't be a big deal for their wife. How about if it was the other way around? Would you be as accepting?
I wouldn't care one bit. It's all looking with no touching. If she wants to go to a male strip club, I could care less about that too. I'll give her some money, send her on her way and tell her to have fun. Only sniffling little weasels with joints the size of toothpicks get butthurt about that stuff.
You might be right... I am bi, and I watch porn, I am very visual, and well... yeah.. let's keep it pg-13
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