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OP, if you are not going up to the women, you are just not that interested or else you would. There is nothing wrong with not striking a convo with every person you see. Even horndogs don't talk to all the women, especially since once they are sexually satisfied, they no longer have the desire to meet more women. You would have to be a sex addict to just keep talking to all the women you see. JMHO.
OP, if you are not going up to the women, you are just not that interested or else you would. There is nothing wrong with not striking a convo with every person you see. Even horndogs don't talk to all the women, especially since once they are sexually satisfied, they no longer have the desire to meet more women. You would have to be a sex addict to just keep talking to all the women you see. JMHO.
I would say that it is less about not being interested in them and more about just not caring to actually get up and go talk to them. I'm interested in every good looking girl I see :P
I haven't been with any women since I broke up with my girlfriend and now I am starting to get bored of not being laid, I just want to pick up hot girls, preferably with no strings attached unless someone really good comes around.
Do most people who are successful with women just approach every good looking woman they see without even thinking twice about it?
Eeeuuu -- gross. I would hope that the women would pick up on that behavior and avoid such a person like the sleeze they would be. Would you like to be approached by such a "player"?
As a young woman, I met a lot of men in the course of my life and was never attracted to the players. I had my chances -- all women do, but gave them a wide distance. I was very attracted to men that were doing things that were interesting, or were interested in what I was doing.
Shared interests are the basis of a new relationship, not fancy footwork and smooth approaches.
Eeeuuu -- gross. I would hope that the women would pick up on that behavior and avoid such a person like the sleeze they would be. Would you like to be approached by such a "player"?
As a young woman, I met a lot of men in the course of my life and was never attracted to the players. I had my chances -- all women do, but gave them a wide distance. I was very attracted to men that were doing things that were interesting, or were interested in what I was doing.
Shared interests are the basis of a new relationship, not fancy footwork and smooth approaches.
How would you know if you have anything in common with the person if they never approach you in the first place?
I'm not talking about taking home every woman you see, I'm talking about going up and meeting a good looking girl that you see. If you have something in common, good.. if not then oh well.
If the women regulars had their way, men would approach women all the time, until their face got so red from being slapped that they couldn't go out in public.
Women are finding that men are no longer providing enough opportunities for ego boosts and want us to change before they need to take anti-depressants.
If you don't get a "good read," and quickly, don't waste your time and don't provide the ego boost. Listen to Tom Leykis. He says that, with the passage of time, your "stock value" goes up and theirs goes down. He is inflammatory, because what he says is real and it's a message the American female population doesn't want to hear.
If you don't get a "good read," and quickly, don't waste your time and don't provide the ego boost. Listen to Tom Leykis. He says that, with the passage of time, your "stock value" goes up and theirs goes down. He is inflammatory, because what he says is real and it's a message the American female population doesn't want to hear.
I have to "spread the rep around" but here's an eternal + for mentioning thy holy father leykis (4.1.12!).
OP: you seem like an intelligent guy. I think the smooth approach works for few and it's kind of "schlocky." Go with the "something in common" approach.
It would have killed the creepy factor had he actually approached her.
I did approach her. She was sitting by the door on the way out. And NO!!! She didn't think I was creepy. She looked at me at least three times and smiled. She didn't mind I was looking at her. Our eyes met a few times or two! Did she want a Love Potion Number 9? Prowly NOT! *Says sitting in my black leather jacket, black pocket t-shirt, a pair of Levi's 505s, Bass boat deck shoes, and a Ford Super Duty Est 1903 baseball cap.
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And NO!!! She didn't think I was creepy. She looked at me at least three times and smiled. She didn't mind I was looking at her. Our eyes met a few times or two! Did she want a Love Potion Number 9? Prowly NOT! *Says sitting in my black leather jacket, black pocket t-shirt, a pair of Levi's 505s, Bass boat deck shoes, and a Ford Super Duty Est 1903 baseball cap. 
