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Old 04-11-2012, 08:37 PM
 
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Bf took his daughter on a vacation for spring break, He didn't call since being there. So I called the second day and asked why he didn't call. He said" because I just want to give my daughter all my time when I have her"

I'm his live-in, 2 years gf.

I just felt crushed. I would be happy with a 2 munites just say hello call and he knows that.

Comments please...
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Old 04-11-2012, 08:48 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Bf took his daughter on a vacation for spring break, He didn't call since being there. So I called the second day and asked why he didn't call. He said" because I just want to give my daughter all my time when I have her"

I'm his live-in, 2 years gf.

I just felt crushed. I would be happy with a 2 munites just say hello call and he knows that.

Comments please...
You never answered my questions from the last
thread you posted.

How much time does he normally spend with his daughter, does he have a visitation schedule?
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Old 04-11-2012, 08:55 PM
 
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You never answered my questions from the last
thread you posted.

How much time does he normally spend with his daughter, does he have a visitation schedule?

I did answer you on that thread, however I don't mind answering here again.

He gets her every 2 weeks on the weekends. And alternate holidays/winter& srping summer breaks.
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Old 04-11-2012, 08:58 PM
 
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You called on the second day, you didn't give him much time to call. You sound needy.
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Bf took his daughter on a vacation for spring break, He didn't call since being there. So I called the second day and asked why he didn't call. He said" because I just want to give my daughter all my time when I have her"

I'm his live-in, 2 years gf.

I just felt crushed. I would be happy with a 2 munites just say hello call and he knows that.

Comments please...
Your boyfriend seems like a cool guy and gets mega-brownie points on the basis of the bolded statement alone.

[relax - be cool...!]
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:24 PM
 
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I have come to a conclusion.

You don't want a resolution. You just want to keep bit***** about your boyfriend.

Every time a poster suggests that you leave him, you come up with reasons why that's not a good idea (see pasts posts by OP). But you are clearly having problems with him. Your emotional dependence on your boyfriend is beyond unhealthy, and you whine every time you feel that he isn't crazy about you. Guess what, he isn't. And at this point, I'm inclined to conclude that you are at fault for giving him so much power over you.

I give up trying to help you. You clearly don't want to be happy. You just want to whine on this forum.
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:32 PM
 
Location: US
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Bf took his daughter on a vacation for spring break, He didn't call since being there. So I called the second day and asked why he didn't call. He said" because I just want to give my daughter all my time when I have her"

I'm his live-in, 2 years gf.

I just felt crushed. I would be happy with a 2 munites just say hello call and he knows that.

Comments please...

Maybe you could think about the family time and fun he was having and just say that. Don't be a "me or your kids" wench. You picked a guy with kids and have to accept family time.
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Okay - so you have now started 8 threads complaining about your boyfriend since you joined - in December. Do yourself (and us) a favor. Stop starting threads and just discuss these things with your boyfriend. We are not your boyfriend. If you have a problem with your boyfriend - talk about it with him. That's what adults do in relationships. They communicate their feelings to each other and work things out.
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Bf took his daughter on a vacation for spring break, He didn't call since being there. So I called the second day and asked why he didn't call. He said" because I just want to give my daughter all my time when I have her"

I'm his live-in, 2 years gf.

I just felt crushed. I would be happy with a 2 munites just say hello call and he knows that.

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Give the man one single week to devote to his daughter. He'll be back in a few days. Don't be a harpy.
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Old 04-11-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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I can understand maybe wanting a phone when they got there just saying that they arrived safely. After that, I think it is wonderful that he wanted to devote his time to his child. You said you live with him, so you get him all the time. If he only sees his child 2 weekends a month, alternate holidays and Spring/Winter breaks..I think the child deserves to have that time devoted to them. You should want that to. Seriously. I would think you should be upset if he didn't. You should be encouraging him to spend time with his child..just the two of them.
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