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I don't think you realize that some women will find a man like that as 'disgusting' as the ones who claim women who slept around aren't desirable.
Also, what you might be noticing is an attractive guy that a bunch of women find attractive, that's not news. Sorry though, women do not care about some other woman's choice of man just for the hell of it.
Why do I get the feeling Brad is disappointed to hear this....? He thought parading women around got him more women.
I think nature made men and women approach sex differently, not ALL men or ALL women but imagine if everyone approached sex without emotion...all we'd do is have sex.
There were remote tribes and ancient cultures in the past were all they did was have sex and enjoy themselves.
This is how the knowledge from Tantra, or the art of healing through sex came about.
What cut off all this fun was the modern life, industrialism, religion and forcing unnatural monogamy on all males.
Women cannot have sex with a lot of people, just like that, at the drop of a hat. Not that they'd want to, anyway. But what do you think women do, just walk out the door and bag the first guy who walks by, or hang out on a street corner until someone picks her up? Get REAL!!
Ever heard of prostitutes? Ever heard of female groupies?
Ever heard of prostitutes? Ever heard of female groupies?
Oh, so you would have us all turn into prostitutes to satisfy our needs? --yourself
I don't know why tantra gets characterized as healing. It's a means to achieve spiritual bliss. Some of the tantric masters were women. Before the tradition was patriarchal, it was matriarchal. It was goddess worship. Men had to grovel before the women tantrics, give them certain gifts, display the appropriate humble demeanor, etc., in order to be accepted into the ritual.
"I have managed to disconnect a lot of the emotional attachment that goes along with sex"
Why go against that part of yourself that naturally desires intimacy a.k.a (into-me-see) not, into my vagina, see?
I personally don't see what's "easy" or beneficial about detaching from the things which makes us wonderfully made/created. Why turn off your brain and emotions for mere moments of physical rumbling? We humans are indeed more than what's between our legs and there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that, embracing it, and expecting others to respect it!
(to Ivory) With all due respect, you're a prude and I'm just shocked that you view sex in such a negative light. Really, how do you think YOU got here?
How dumb. She wasn't viewing sex in a negative light, but the suggestion that women just throw caution to the wind (just because the men want them to) and/or be less selective about who they have sex with.
Being smart is always going to be considered prudish and arrogant. Oh well, cry about it.
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Originally Posted by calicali01
There were remote tribes and ancient cultures in the past were all they did was have sex and enjoy themselves.
This is how the knowledge from Tantra, or the art of healing through sex came about.
What cut off all this fun was the modern life, industrialism, religion and forcing unnatural monogamy on all males.
Aaand what brought about "the modern life", industrialism, religion, and "forcing unnatural monogamy on all males" (Wow, at that one)?
Evolution.
And as I and others have mentioned already, there are evolutionary explanations as to why women are more cautious about sex. Put simply, women have much more to lose from a sexual misadventure.
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Ever heard of prostitutes? Ever heard of female groupies?
