Should I keep dating him?

[jljbos]

Yea he did say he wanted a relationship down the road, with me or not he didn't know yet. Like i said Im not asking him to be in one now because I also think its too early, I just wanted some sort of idea where this was heading. At this point he told me he is not dating other people, if that is true or not I really don't know. I kind of feel like I should give it another month and maybe bring it up again depending on how we are by then?? Because I definitely think by three months you should have an idea of where the relationship is going.

[slowdog101]

Originally Posted by jljbos

I am just sort of wondering if I should continue seeing him because Im not sure if this is going to lead into a relationship, because ultimately that is what I want. We did talk about this and he said he would like one but he is not ready to be in one yet. So should I keep seeing him and hoping he will reach that point or try to give my time dating to someone else who might actually be ready for a relationship?

Start dating other men, and you may find:

1) Another man who is ready for a relationship,
2) That the 23 year-old may suddenly be ready for a relationship, or
3) Many other things that you haven't thought of yet.

I would date others and not be exclusive with Mr. 23 year-old if you are interested in a relationship.

[moonwatcher]

OP-- move on

[sablebaby]

Originally Posted by slowdog101

Start dating other men, and you may find:

1) Another man who is ready for a relationship,
2) That the 23 year-old may suddenly be ready for a relationship, or
3) Many other things that you haven't thought of yet.

I would date others and not be exclusive with Mr. 23 year-old if you are interested in a relationship.

I agree!