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Oh.. one more thing. Before you kick her ass out of your life, make sure you show her this thread so she realizes she's a worthless, ungrateful bore of a hack. Then move on to a real woman and never look back.
Say you are deciding to go on a cruise vacation and want to take your girlfriend... she cannot afford it but you figure you will take her along since you do like her company. However, since now you are going to absorb the cost of 2 instead of one, to save money you opt for the less expensive inside room (no windows), you figure it's a good compromise.
You announce the surprise vacation to your GF, she is happy but not too thrilled about the inside room and complains about it...says you should go for the more expensive window rooms since she knows you can afford it.
How would you feel about it?
How would I feel? I an very sensitive and I would take offense to it. I imagine you did too. Did you explain why you decided what you did? You two are lucky to be together. Dont fight over something unimportant. Just communicate feelings briefly and clear the air. And have a great time
If I did something very nice and she responds with..." I don't like the inside of the room...why do we have to stay in a room like that??" instead of "WOw....that was so nice of you!! The room doesn't matter as long as I'm with you and I'm sure we'll have a memorable time! Now, since you've been so nice, I think I'll make you your favorite dish for dinner "
Last edited by midatlantic12; 06-03-2012 at 08:36 PM..
I would dump her ass in a New York minute. Make that a New York HALF minute.
In all the years I dated prior to marriage, I never expected my BF to pay for one meal, one hotel room or one vacation for me. (And he never did, I paid my own way).
I would be LIVID at your ungrateful GF and kick her whining little cheapskate ass to the curb.
Good riddance. A real woman with any smarts, self-estem or class wouldn't expect you to pay for her vacation, she pays her own way.
Exactly what she said!
Immediately tell her she's not going. Go by yourself and have lots of FUN!!!!
if she really didn't appreciate what you tried to do, i'd think about inviting some other women and using it as a bon voyage trip to celebrate the the end of your relationship with your gf.
all kidding aside dude, that is really that is a red flag someone you don't want to end up with in an LTR... unless of course she is a super hottie that rocks your socks off, then you put up with that kind of princess/high maintenance behavior until you no longer want to deal with her as your gf.
Not much to add. Everything has already been said. She is ungrateful, rude and unappreciative of the invite. I wouldn't dump her so quick but I would definitely tell her how you feel and then act according to how the talk goes and her attitude on the issue.
If I were you, i would sit her down and have a conversation about this. Tell her exactly what you think about it, how it makes you feel and where to go from here.
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