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Old 06-04-2012, 11:15 AM
 
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No-one needs to justify themselves to anyone on here least of all to those who categorise other peoples choices.

I think it's pretty unlikely the ladies on here give a flying fart what people think of what they've done. Nor should they..

For my part as a 40 yr old bloke i've slept with 7.. whoop-da-bloody-do..
Except I guarantee they do care, the only reason they are willing to mention how many partners they've had is the anonymity of the Internet. Do you think they would go around in public discussing this with such openness, I kind of doubt it.

 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:20 AM
 
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Except I guarantee they do care, the only reason they are willing to mention how many partners they've had is the anonymity of the Internet. Do you think they would go around in public discussing this with such openness, I kind of doubt it.
I do! If asked, I tell. Most secure men dont ask and I dont ask them. Everyone's happy
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:23 AM
 
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I honestly think(and these men would never admit to it) a lot of guys are just flat out jealous of how easy women have it in terms of getting sex and relationships. So that's where the bitterness comes from

Me personally, I like the chase and of course it would be nice to sit back and pick my spots or be GUARANTEED to be able to be with 95% of My preferred partners. But that's just the cards that are dealt in being a man
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:23 AM
 
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Wow, I can't recall what happened before my marriage, so I guess that doesn't count. Can only remember since my divorce. But I feel that's my business only. If a guy asks me that he is undateable.
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:24 AM
 
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they don't want 'good women' in the first place. i stop believing this a long time ago, their behaviors have proved this to be correct. they want to keep playing their 'scoring game,' so they will keep getting the same types. that's their problem.
If you cant beat em', join em'!

Seriously though, there are plenty of men out there who aren't playing games at all. I've been proposed to twice, both times I declined, but the guys were good guys who wanted to settle down and have a family. I didn't, so it didn't work out, but there are plenty of good men out there.
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:24 AM
 
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I do! If asked, I tell. Most secure men dont ask and I dont ask them. Everyone's happy
Most men wouldn't ask for fear of getting women angry. Most sane women would not want to be asked that question.
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:27 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you cant beat em', join em'!

Seriously though, there are plenty of men out there who aren't playing games at all. I've been proposed to twice, both times I declined, but the guys were good guys who wanted to settle down and have a family. I didn't, so it didn't work out, but there are plenty of good men out there.

i don't plan on joining them in their promiscuous behaviors just to get a man. i'll go without one if that's how it's going to be.

and blah, blah about the good men out there, not again . whatever. they all play the same games until they can't play them anymore.
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:28 AM
 
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Most men wouldn't ask for fear of getting women angry. Most sane women would not want to be asked that question.
Never claimed to be sane
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:30 AM
 
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i don't plan on joining them in their promiscuous behaviors just to get a man. i'll go without one if that's how it's going to be.

and blah, blah about the good men out there, not again . whatever. they all play the same games until they can't play them anymore.
I was proposed to at 22 and 20 so I dont think those guys were "unable to play anymore".
 
Old 06-04-2012, 11:35 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I was proposed to at 22 and 20 so I dont think those guys were "unable to play anymore".

well then good for you then, I guess. you can go along in the same category with the other women on here claim to know so many 'great guys.'
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