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Did you read the story? That was the most misleading title I've ever seen. The title says "Facebook to blame for more divorces". That makes it sound like FB is causing the split. In actuality the article was about how spouses are using FB to investigate what their spouse it up to. It talks about suspicious spouses using FB like they would a private eye.
I find people who do this pathetic attention seekers. I have friends who post picture after picture of themselves on FB...seriously get a life. No self respecting woman should be posting bikini and cleavage pictures all over Facebook, married or not.
Scooter, I don't know your wife but I already like her. I wanna throw a low-sodium, slow roasted Brazil nut into her cleavage. I'm a little undecided between Brazil or the macadamia nut, but the Brazil nut is bigger.
How do I friend her? She sounds like a really nice person.
I remember this one from the other bar post. It sounds like you need a wife that does not need any attention or affection at all from you or anyone else OR you need to figure out why you are so insecure and jealous of dang near everything your wife does.
You should probably try and figure out why you feel the need to post these issues on a public forum as well when you should be talking to your wife about the issues within your marriage.
Ask her to put a block on her pictures on facebook, so no one can comment. If she says "no" you'll know she's lying about only wanting them on there for herself and not for the admiration and lude comments of other men to boost her ego.
I remember this one from the other bar post. It sounds like you need a wife that does not need any attention or affection at all from you or anyone else OR you need to figure out why you are so insecure and jealous of dang near everything your wife does.
You should probably try and figure out why you feel the need to post these issues on a public forum as well when you should be talking to your wife about the issues within your marriage.
My wife has agreed to curtail the FB pics, but insists that she sees nothing wrong with it.
The bolded part is the last sentence in my original post. Why would you say "you should be talking to my wife about the issues within your marriage". Isn't it obvious for her to agree to that, I HAVE been talking to her about it?
I talk to my wife about pretty much everything that bothers me. I think communication is paramount. Sometimes my wife sees my point and agrees with me. Sometimes she agrees to compromise to respect my feelings, but does not agree with them. Sometimes she thinks I'm being unreasonable and refuses to change and tells me I need to deal with it.
The sole reason for posting on city-data is to get other peoples opinions. Oftentimes when my wife and I disagree she implies that I think differently than most people on a certain topic. By coming on here and seeing that others see things similarly, I feel better about whether I'm being rational or not. And sometimes I've read what people have wrote and it's given me a different perspective that I hadn't thought about.
The question I have for you is why do you come on a message forum, and post a message, criticizing people for coming on a message forum and posting messages?
My wife has agreed to curtail the FB pics, but insists that she sees nothing wrong with it.
The bolded part is the last sentence in my original post. Why would you say "you should be talking to my wife about the issues within your marriage". Isn't it obvious for her to agree to that, I HAVE been talking to her about it?
I talk to my wife about pretty much everything that bothers me. I think communication is paramount. Sometimes my wife sees my point and agrees with me. Sometimes she agrees to compromise to respect my feelings, but does not agree with them. Sometimes she thinks I'm being unreasonable and refuses to change and tells me I need to deal with it.
The sole reason for posting on FB is to get other peoples opinions. Oftentimes when my wife and I disagree she implies that I think differently than most people on a certain topic. By coming on here and seeing that others see things similarly, I feel better about whether I'm being rational or not. And sometimes I've read what people have wrote and it's given me a different perspective that I hadn't thought about.
The question I have for you is why do you come on a message forum, and post a message, criticizing people for coming on a message forum and posting messages?
From your previous posts, I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, but now with posting cleavage shots and bikini shots on FB, I agree that she's an exhibitionist/attention-seeking/narcissistic. Teenage girls tend do this but not grown, married women.
Does she suffer from low self-esteem that she needs validation from others about how she looks?
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