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I'm glad you're doing something about it if it's really bothering you. On the other hand, look at it this way: when you two go out, and she's dressed really sexy, consider yourself lucky that you have a wife who looks good and makes other guys think of you as a lucky SOB!
I have made efforts to think that way. It's hard for me because in the back of my mind I'm thinking that she's doing it for the attention and not for me. But I get that it's perfectly normal for women to want to look pretty and sexy when they go out. So I know it's my little hangup that I have to work on.
Did you read the story? That was the most misleading title I've ever seen. The title says "Facebook to blame for more divorces". That makes it sound like FB is causing the split. In actuality the article was about how spouses are using FB to investigate what their spouse it up to. It talks about suspicious spouses using FB like they would a private eye.
My meaning:
One thing leads to another!
Bottom line:
She is begging for attention from other males!! Do you think she is doing it to impress her girlfriends???
That means that if only one male on the prowl takes all of the "hints"/ pics, and sweet talks her to death, she's as good as his/gone/seduced/done.
If you think otherwise, you have your head in the sand or up your...
My meaning: one thing leads to another! She is begging for attention from other males!! That means that if one takes all of the "hints"/ pics, and sweet talks her to death, she's as good as his/gone/seduced/done. If you think otherwise, you have yor head in the sand or up your...
When I'm working out and my body is in good shape I like to wear clothes that show it off a little. I would never post pics on FB because I find that to be really vain. But I enjoy when women notice me. That does not mean that the first one that showed an interest I would be "hers/gone/seduced/done".
You sound like a "glass is half empty" kind of a guy. Do you always assume the worst possible outcome for everything?
When I'm working out and my body is in good shape I like to wear clothes that show it off a little. I would never post pics on FB because I find that to be really vain. But I enjoy when women notice me. That does not mean that the first one that showed an interest I would be "hers/gone/seduced/done".
You sound like a "glass is half empty" kind of a guy. Do you always assume the worst possible outcome for everything?
Not at all.
Unfortunately, I have witnessed this scenario time and time again.
It would be wrong to ignore the fact she could wander as a possibility.
I think the fact that I've talked to her about the pics and the attention she seems to seek is proof that I'm not ignoring it. I'm confident at this point it's not about wanting to wander, but more about wanting to hear/see positive comments about her looking good. It's a huge stretch to say that the next thing she'll want is sex.
I think the fact that I've talked to her about the pics and the attention she seems to seek is proof that I'm not ignoring it. I'm confident at this point it's not about wanting to wander, but more about wanting to hear/see positive comments about her looking good. It's a huge stretch to say that the next thing she'll want is sex.
It's not a stretch when her actions have been a problem in the past for you. She seems to find new outlets once you voice your disapproval of her actions. It seems like she will always find a way to receive attention from men. The progression and finding other routes is what is worrisome.
Don't get me wrong I have too. But not every situation is the same.
True.
I would ask for her Facebook password as the true test and trust. If she gives it without a flinch, then you're probably a-okay. If she starts with the, "You don't trust me" bit, you should be really worried. Of course, she could delete all messages before and after. There will always be a mess up, or forget to do it, in the future. It could also keep any temptation away. Another alternative is adding your combined names and pics to the account. That should keep the dirt bags away!
Example: Mr. & Mrs. Scooter <<< followed by her first name & your first name
If the OP doesn't feel his lady will wander, why even care if she posts pics? Something doesn't sit right with him. Maybe he should listen to that little voice and not consider it "assuming the worst".
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