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What do you care what they think of themselves? And why do you believe you are in a position to teach them a lesson that they haven't asked from you?
here's what is likely happening:
he's approaching these really hot women, (the ones they drool over ) and getting shot down. Now he feels he needs to kick them off the pedestal (same one they put them on) "and teach a lesson." I have seen this happen and even had it happen to me (and I'm not even in those girls' league); they feel the need to knock you down a peg if you reject them, plain and simple.
he's approaching these really hot women, (the ones they drool over ) and getting shot down. Now he feels he needs to kick them off the pedestal (same one they put them on) "and teach a lesson." I have seen this happen and even had it happen to me (and I'm not even in those girls' league); they feel the need to knock you down a peg if you reject them, plain and simple.
That makes sense. I dont put anyone on a pedestol. At the end of the day, it is just a girl. They bleed every month like every other woman. I just dont like how some women feel like it is nessecary to be ignorant and arrogant when some men try to talk to them. Believe it or not some guys just want a good, normal conversation once in a while that wont lead to anything. There is nothing wrong with talking to women. So why do some of them go out of their way to be rude so that it scares them off?
he's approaching these really hot women, (the ones they drool over ) and getting shot down. Now he feels he needs to kick them off the pedestal (same one they put them on) "and teach a lesson." I have seen this happen and even had it happen to me (and I'm not even in those girls' league); they feel the need to knock you down a peg if you reject them, plain and simple.
This! This is why from now on I will just simply meet guys who are friends of friends.
No need to be rude to the young lady. Just tell her to have a wonderful day and keep it moving.
It's not nice and just seems like an insecurity on your part to have to "knock her down" a few pegs.
That makes sense. I dont put anyone on a pedestol. At the end of the day, it is just a girl. I just dont like how some women feel like it is nessecary to be ignorant and arrogant when some men try to talk to them. Believe it or not some guys just want good conversation once in a while.
So they don't want to have a conversation. I'm sure there are other girls who would love to have it. Just move on.
That makes sense. I dont put anyone on a pedestol. At the end of the day, it is just a girl. They bleed every month like every other woman. I just dont like how some women feel like it is nessecary to be ignorant and arrogant when some men try to talk to them. Believe it or not some guys just want a good, normal conversation once in a while that wont lead to anything. There is nothing wrong with talking to women. So why do some of them go out of their way to be rude so that it scares them off?
Okay. I understand what you're saying. I do not know why some women just can't say 'no' and leave it at that. Personally, I beleive men just do not like being told 'no.' I'm telling you I have had that exact scenario I describe, happen to me. I have told the (very few) no, not in a rude way and it doesn't matter how you say it. I know I'm not the only woman either.
What I said before is true, okay you say you don't do it. But majority men DO drool over these women and then complain when they act like bi*ches. Um, hello!
I agree with NJ21, just avoid those types in the first place. Personally I don't think you can 'teach them a lesson,' somebody that's arrogant will always spin it into something else anyway. *shrugs*
This! This is why from now on I will just simply meet guys who are friends of friends.
No need to be rude to the young lady. Just tell her to have a wonderful day and keep it moving.
It's not nice and just seems like an insecurity on your part to have to "knock her down" a few pegs.
What exactly would you be saying to her anyways?
I agree with you. If you have friends that can help you in this area, then that is a better idea, that way they know how those males are from the beginning. I have very bad anxiety disorder, personally I prefer them not to approach me either anymore (few years ago was different) ,even though this was only a handful of times in my life anyways. I don't like their reactions. They're too aggressive.
no, just knock them down a peg maybe, let them know that they are human like everyone else and that the world doesent revolve around them.when i know im wasting my time trying to talk to them, i like to ask them a random question that will be certain to get rid of them but at the same time get a good rise out of them for my own amusement, like ''so what underwear are you wearing?'' or ''so when was the last time you got laid?'' I find it funny when they give me that ''where the bleep did that come from''? look
I totally misjudged you. You are not a good guy at all.
I agree with you. If you have friends that can help you in this area, then that is a better idea, that way they know how those males are from the beginning. I have very bad anxiety disorder, personally I prefer them not to approach me either anymore (few years ago was different) ,even though this was only a handful of times in my life anyways. I don't like their reactions. They're too aggressive.
I don't like it so much anymore either. The outcome usually isn't a good one. It's usually been a bad split/break/whatever its called because I didn't know the person well enough but chose to "date" them anyways.
It is very aggresive. Almost comparable to adoor-to-door sales tactics.
i like to ask them a random question that will be certain to get rid of them but at the same time get a good rise out of them for my own amusement, like ''so what underwear are you wearing?'' or ''so when was the last time you got laid?'' I find it funny when they give me that ''where the bleep did that come from''? look
I can assure you that is not what they are thinking. In fact, it is more along the lines of
"What a disgusting loser."
"I feel unsafe and better get away from this pig"
"Is he retarded or mentally ill?"
"My friends are going to get a laugh when I tell them my weirdo-guy story"
"With that attitude, I bet he has a teeny-tiny weenie. Or he's still a virgin."
Trust me, you are not schooling them on how to behave around men.
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) and getting shot down. Now he feels he needs to kick them off the pedestal (same one they put them on) "and teach a lesson." I have seen this happen and even had it happen to me (and I'm not even in those girls' league); they feel the need to knock you down a peg if you reject them, plain and simple.
Um, hello! 
You are not a good guy at all.
