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I trust most women to be untrustworthy, and thats just how I feel honestly. I have a good girl in my life right now but I never let my guard down, people are ruthless out there. Even the sweetest woman can turn into one of the most putrid and callous persons that you have in your life. To be honest, I would love to let down my guard but thats a dangerous thing to do in these times.
On the subject of bringing your own hats, yes most definitely. People who laugh and say a woman won't poke holes in your condom, haven't really gotten to know the person they're smashing. There's a lot of association with hood rats doing this, but trust me I was banging a financial analyst (who absolutely killed me in the tax brackets) who tried to pull this off. She was perfectly competent, had her ish together but she was nearing the wall (29+), I dropped her after that. It's not about a money thing, I think it comes down to dealing with possessive people.
A dude would never poke holes in a condom, lol that's just straight up ridiculous. It makes no sense to do that when you can just go raw.
I could see a small portion of men doing this if they thought their partner was on a different page than they were as far as kids or if other motivations came into play. But if the female really didn't want to have kids she'd probably be using other forms of birth control anyway.
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Sounds like mommy and daddy have been covering for Johnny all his life. Nice way to raise an irresponsible kid who doesn't care about the effect his actions have on others.
I don't understand why you two can't seem to grasp what's being talked about. In most upper middle/upper class families, grandparents almost always throw in extra money just because it's their grandchild and they want to do something nice. Even if the father makes $5 million a year and can certainly provide for the child on his own, they'll still make sure the child has a bit more; either by providing the funds outright, or by buying the child all kinds of stuff while in their custody.
People who laugh and say a woman won't poke holes in your condom, haven't really gotten to know the person they're smashing. There's a lot of association with hood rats doing this, but trust me I was banging a financial analyst (who absolutely killed me in the tax brackets) who tried to pull this off. She was perfectly competent, had her ish together but she was nearing the wall (29+), I dropped her after that. It's not about a money thing, I think it comes down to dealing with possessive people.
How do you know she "tried to pull this off"? Just curious. 29 is so far from the wall, I'd have to say this woman may have been competent professionally, but had some hidden loony tunes personally. But your point that there are all kinds out there, and in the most unexpected places, is well taken.
I don't understand why you two can't seem to grasp what's being talked about. In most upper middle/upper class families, grandparents almost always throw in extra money just because it's their grandchild. Even if the father makes $5 million a year and can certainly provide for the child on his own, they'll still make sure the child has a bit more; either by providing the funds outright, or by buying the child all kinds of stuff.
Not sure I really agree with you. To the extent some wealthier families shower their grandkid with money, it is when little Johnny follows the rules and marries the right woman and THEN has kids.
They aren't quite as willing to throw money at a grandkid produced by Johnny's ONS, when they consider the mom a floozy.
Not sure I really agree with you. To the extent some wealthier families shower their grandkid with money, it is when little Johnny follows the rules and marries the right woman and THEN has kids.
They aren't quite as willing to throw money at a grandkid produced by Johnny's ONS, when they consider the mom a floozy.
This is so true. And whether or not they shower a legit grandkid with money or gifts is a highly individual matter. Some upper crust parents expect their kids to take care of their own business and be financially independent.
Also, for all you sabotaged condom paranoiacs out there, have you ever heard of holding it up to the light to check for defects before using it? Women who want to be sure to avoid pregnancy but don't use oral contraceptives do this routinely. Condoms can be defective, so it's crucial to check them before use.
A dude would never poke holes in a condom, lol that's just straight up ridiculous. It makes no sense to do that when you can just go raw.
There is no difference in deceiptful men and deceiptful women. If a dude wants a child and she does'nt or a dude wants her to have a child to keep her or keep her under control he could do this. She would not have sex with him raw so he would have to wear a condom.
I trust most women to be untrustworthy, and thats just how I feel honestly. I have a good girl in my life right now but I never let my guard down, people are ruthless out there. Even the sweetest woman can turn into one of the most putrid and callous persons that you have in your life. To be honest, I would love to let down my guard but thats a dangerous thing to do in these times.
On the subject of bringing your own hats, yes most definitely. People who laugh and say a woman won't poke holes in your condom, haven't really gotten to know the person they're smashing. There's a lot of association with hood rats doing this, but trust me I was banging a financial analyst (who absolutely killed me in the tax brackets) who tried to pull this off. She was perfectly competent, had her ish together but she was nearing the wall (29+), I dropped her after that. It's not about a money thing, I think it comes down to dealing with possessive people.
A dude would never poke holes in a condom, lol that's just straight up ridiculous. It makes no sense to do that when you can just go raw.
I imagine if he was the one wanting a pregnancy and the woman was not, it would be perfect for him. He could just say it must have ripped.
There are a lot of women these days who just do not want children....
How do you know the woman did that?? Were you her one last chance or something?
Also, re RISUG. Why would a man want to have a birth control that lasts ten years? What if you were to marry and want a child within a couple of years, etc?
Wordlife I am not trying to be rude towards you, just questioning your post, btw.
There is no difference in deceiptful men and deceiptful women. If a dude wants a child and she does'nt or a dude wants her to have a child to keep her or keep her under control he could do this. She would not have sex with him raw so he would have to wear a condom.
Yep, I could totally see some controlling guys doing this. It is surprising what a controlling guy will do.
Don't **** women you don't trust. If you can't keep yourself from doing that and simply can't bear the idea of having children as a consequence of having sex with someone, then get yourself snipped. Heck, it's even reversible.
My one ex got snipped a couple years after we broke up because he was marrying a woman he didn't trust (that's a much longer story), and after his divorce, I swear he happily banged every woman of legal age in sight. It was kind of hysterically funny to see the variety of women he went through.
How do you know she "tried to pull this off"? Just curious. 29 is so far from the wall, I'd have to say this woman may have been competent professionally, but had some hidden loony tunes personally. But your point that there are all kinds out there, and in the most unexpected places, is well taken.
I agree. On the other side, I know a few women who were desperately wanting to start a family but their SO was not. So they broke it off and found a sperm doner, had a child that they love and support themselves. There is a type of women that would get preg. by trickery but the majority of women are the type with character that would never do such a thing.
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