What To Make Of This Girl??? { If You Aren't Interested, Just Say So } (date, women)
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So ok guys, you remember my story about wanting to date the new girl at my work right? And you remember the pathetic depths I was willing to sink to in my desperation right? Blah blah, whatever, I got the number so **** ** haters Haha, anyway, I dont know what to make of this girl at this point. Yes, I was a gentleman about the whole thing and yes, I got the number. Two infact. A cell phone number and a home number. Anyway, I invited her to do something to which she agrred and acted as if she wanted to go. That was where the first conversation ended and I was going to setup the specifocs later on.
When I tried to get a hold of her to do that though..... nothing, no response from her. So, I felt bad about it for awhile and then decided it wasn't worth feeling like crap over and went to work the next day like who cares. I decided then and there she wasn't into me and was left wondering why then, she gave me her number in the first place, especialy since I didn't ask her for her number but gave her mine instead. Since then, we have been getting along fine as co workers. I told her that "it was too bad she couldn't make it" just to see what she would say about the whole thing, and she said that I never texted her, which I did and I told her so. She then told me that "she wasn't that big into cell phones" and she shared one with her roomate, which I found suspicious in this day and age of technology crazed young people.
I did find out through other means that she really didn't have her own phone though, not because I cared at that point but because I don't appreciate being lied to. Anyway, it all checked out. I decided not to pursue her "in that way" and just be friends and co workers. So......... this past friday she invited ME to do something and I agreed and was told to text her later on for the details. I siad ok and I did that very thing. What did I get back in response? NOTHING again.
Now the way I see it, if she really wanted me to do something with her, she would at least try and contact me at this point. We are pretty comfortable with one another and her texting ME would be appropriate.
What should I make of this girl my City-Data gurus? Is she "just not that into me" Is she playing games expecting a chase? what? Even if she wanted to just be friends, I can't imagine her just ignoring my attempts to reach her. And, If she wanted nothing to do at all with me outside of work, I can't imagine she would invite me to do something outside of work. Needless to say, I am very
And on a more general note ladies, if you're not interested, just say so upfront! Please don't play with our affections, It's not very nice.
So ok guys, you remember my story about wanting to date the new girl at my work right? And you remember the pathetic depths I was willing to sink to in my desperation right? Blah blah, whatever, I got the number so **** ** haters Haha, anyway, I dont know what to make of this girl at this point. Yes, I was a gentleman about the whole thing and yes, I got the number. Two infact. A cell phone number and a home number. Anyway, I invited her to do something to which she agrred and acted as if she wanted to go. That was where the first conversation ended and I was going to setup the specifocs later on.
When I tried to get a hold of her to do that though..... nothing, no response from her. So, I felt bad about it for awhile and then decided it wasn't worth feeling like crap over and went to work the next day like who cares. I decided then and there she wasn't into me and was left wondering why then, she gave me her number in the first place, especialy since I didn't ask her for her number but gave her mine instead. Since then, we have been getting along fine as co workers. I told her that "it was too bad she couldn't make it" just to see what she would say about the whole thing, and she said that I never texted her, which I did and I told her so. She then told me that "she wasn't that big into cell phones" and she shared one with her roomate, which I found suspicious in this day and age of technology crazed young people.
I did find out through other means that she really didn't have her own phone though, not because I cared at that point but because I don't appreciate being lied to. Anyway, it all checked out. I decided not to pursue her "in that way" and just be friends and co workers. So......... this past friday she invited ME to do something and I agreed and was told to text her later on for the details. I siad ok and I did that very thing. What did I get back in response? NOTHING again.
Now the way I see it, if she really wanted me to do something with her, she would at least try and contact me at this point. We are pretty comfortable with one another and her texting ME would be appropriate.
What should I make of this girl my City-Data gurus? Is she "just not that into me" Is she playing games expecting a chase? what? Even if she wanted to just be friends, I can't imagine her just ignoring my attempts to reach her. And, If she wanted nothing to do at all with me outside of work, I can't imagine she would invite me to do something outside of work. Needless to say, I am very
And on a more general note ladies, if you're not interested, just say so upfront! Please don't play with our affections, It's not very nice.
She's f***ing witcha dude! Forget about her and her game.
You really want to get to her? Stop worrying about it. That kills a "game" faster then hornet spray on The Green Hornet.
...Anyway, I invited her to do something to which she agrred and acted as if she wanted to go. That was where the first conversation ended and I was going to setup the specifocs later on.
When I tried to get a hold of her to do that though..... nothing, no response from her.
I did find out through other means that she really didn't have her own phone though...
So......... this past friday she invited ME to do something and I agreed and was told to text her later on for the details. I siad ok and I did that very thing. What did I get back in response? NOTHING again.
Now the way I see it, if she really wanted me to do something with her, she would at least try and contact me at this point. We are pretty comfortable with one another...
Even if she wanted to just be friends, I can't imagine her just ignoring my attempts to reach her. And, If she wanted nothing to do at all with me outside of work, I can't imagine she would invite me to do something outside of work. Needless to say, I am very
she might be dyslexic and waiting for a friend (she shares the phone or cell with) to "read" text to her.
chunk texting and offer voicemail.
Or pick her up after work and do something then. If that falls flat THEN call it a day.
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