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Old 08-17-2012, 09:46 PM
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she just sent a text apologizing for not being able to call but it's been a crazy week and her dad is sick and not doing very well............"obvious lie"

Well time to get my back up plan together for tomorrow

 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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Maybe you are just one guy on a long list of guys she dates. If you are like every other guy she has dated, why wouldn't she just accept a date for dinner and nothing else. What have you done to stand out from the rest of the guys? Probably nothing, so why should she treat you any different, why should she treat you special? You are not special, you are just another guy that wants her company for the evening, and more if you can get it. Dating is tough these days, men make it tougher than it has to be, because they don't think with their brain.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:01 PM
 
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she just sent a text apologizing for not being able to call but it's been a crazy week and her dad is sick and not doing very well............"obvious lie"

Well time to get my back up plan together for tomorrow
What if it has been a crazy week, and her dad is sick? People do have crazy weeks, especially if they have to care for a sick parent. I wouldn't want to date someone who thought I was lying. Let us know how it goes.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:06 PM
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What if it has been a crazy week, and her dad is sick? People do have crazy weeks, especially if they have to care for a sick parent. I wouldn't want to date someone who thought I was lying. Let us know how it goes.
The 1999 me would have told her she was lying in a text but the 2012 me will just ignore the text and pretend I;m having a "crazy weekend"
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:09 PM
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Maybe you are just one guy on a long list of guys she dates. If you are like every other guy she has dated, why wouldn't she just accept a date for dinner and nothing else. What have you done to stand out from the rest of the guys? Probably nothing, so why should she treat you any different, why should she treat you special? You are not special, you are just another guy that wants her company for the evening, and more if you can get it. Dating is tough these days, men make it tougher than it has to be, because they don't think with their brain.

Well atleast you agree that she was lying about her father-lol See most girls know that no one will question a sick family member and it's a convenient way out
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:09 PM
 
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The 1999 me would have told her she was lying in a text but the 2012 me will just ignore the text and pretend I;m having a "crazy weekend"
Only took 13 yrs to get there...?????????
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:11 PM
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Only took 13 yrs to get there...?????????
yup
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:12 PM
 
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yup
Better late than never.....
 
Old 08-17-2012, 10:16 PM
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Better late than never.....
Noticed how she TEXT instead of CALLING.........lol
 
Old 08-17-2012, 11:00 PM
 
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I'm not interested in having long get-to-know-you conversations before a date. That's what the date is for, that's why they call it a first date. a single text the day before the date to confirm plans would have sufficed.

I dated a guy briefly who told me he got concerned when I didn't call him between our first informal lunch meetup on a Tuesday and our official date on Friday. I should have known right then, he was weirdly obsessive after knowing me for less than a week.
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