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There's no way in hell you could ever line up 2 dates for the same night. It takes you YEARS to get one little nibble for one date in a matter of months.
I will do it next saturday................JUST FOR YOU
And she didn't tell you about her sick father after first meeting you? Shocker! I don't talk about any of my struggles until after I have known you long enough to feel comfortable.
Sheesh. Is she supposed to be your BFF before the first date?
Well for now on I will have Sick mommy moving forward and no female better question it
Well, I would never suspect someone of lying about a sick relative. That's just lower than I think most people would go. However, I would suspect that a date that someone was actually excited about would be a much-needed relief and they would be on top of confirming it. So I do suspect she hasn't confirmed to herself that she is all that excited about it. There's nothing wrong with that, especially for a first date.
RE: Paying and Obligation
Your expectation that you will pay for the date entitles you to nothing. Over and out.
BINGO and now that's why I will start using sick relatives as a excuse because no one will ever question it.
I recently dated 2 women that displayed a similiar pattern. If I didn't text or call them, they wouldn't text or call me. But if I invited them out, they would meet up with me and we would have a good time. But then again, same thing. If I didn't contact them, they wouldn't contact me. One of them admitted to being too busy for dating, and we left it at that. We are now friends. Even though I haven't seen her since our last "date".
The other woman and I had a third date planned for a Sunday afternoon a few weeks back. We were to make contact on saturday for official plans, due to things like weather and so on. I was hoping to do something spontaneous and fun. I never heard from her. I texted her on sunday basically saying "hi, looks like we won't be getting together today." she responded, "yea, the weekend went by fast for me." I then decided this woman wasn't showing me interest, and since she didn't even care to contact me on saturday for planning for sunday, I wished her well and said my good bye.
For me, I have run into some people that have no problem meeting up for dinner, and then they don't care to contact me to express interest in ME. That is why from now on, my dates with new women will be much more casual, and cost me much less money. At this point, I want to know that the woman is interested in ME, not the free to them, good tasting, expensive to me, meal they are getting.
Unless of course I am dieing for a steak or some really good italain, then whoever I am seeing at that point gets a treat. But that decision to do the expensive dinner is FOR ME, not because I am trying to entertain or impress my date.
Don't forget the other one some women like to use......."I got attacked by wolves" LOL
A word of advice. On your first date DO NOT take a woman to the movies our out to dinner. If it doesn't work out then you.ve wasted time and money. What are some things that you like do? Your in a big city, do something fun like going to museum or an amusement park. I had dates at the mall and at best buy. Switch it up.
Says who? Of all the dates ive been on we split things 50/50 or she paid.
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