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I think God does not want me to procreate. There is just no other way to explain the incredibly bad luck i have with women. I am a reasonably good looking guy, i make ok money but not great, and i am open to many different kinds of women... older, younger, with a kid, no kids, skinny, thick, etc...
Other guys with my qualifications seem to do just fine getting women. So i think that's it. The Man Upstairs just thinks that i would make a bad father. He could be right, frankly. I complain about my own problems all the time and i never figure out how to fix them... so how am i going to teach a kid how to handle life's problems if i cannot handle my own?
Maybe i'll start pursuing women who are above the age where they can still have eggs and have a kid. Maybe it's time for me to start being a Cougar-chaser, and see if fate works out better for me.
I have problems with men all the time and I am considered a beautiful woman. I eventually figured out the problem was me and the fact I have to work on myself first.
I think God does not want me to procreate. There is just no other way to explain the incredibly bad luck i have with women. I am a reasonably good looking guy, i make ok money but not great, and i am open to many different kinds of women... older, younger, with a kid, no kids, skinny, thick, etc...
Other guys with my qualifications seem to do just fine getting women. So i think that's it. The Man Upstairs just thinks that i would make a bad father. He could be right, frankly. I complain about my own problems all the time and i never figure out how to fix them... so how am i going to teach a kid how to handle life's problems if i cannot handle my own?
Maybe i'll start pursuing women who are above the age where they can still have eggs and have a kid. Maybe it's time for me to start being a Cougar-chaser, and see if fate works out better for me.
What are your qualifications beyond being reasonably good-looking, a decent paycheck and not being picky?
I'm kinda the opposite. Women seem to be the only aspect of my life that I have good luck with. Unfortunately, unless I know that I can take care of myself, then I am going to have to miss out. It's a code of honor for me. (It's resulted in a couple of broken hearts).
When my business takes off or I earn enough to support myself, then I can be open. God seems to want me to procreate...
Just work on yourself. You may have to get your mind off of women and find something to be thankful for. I find that I have my best luck with women when I am content with my life and am working towards greater goals.
I too, am considered to be good looking. Growing my hair out and styling it in a way that is suitable for me and unique also seemed to help my chances with women.
Hey, I made my own dating sucks thread today too, haha. Dating is just really tough. There are so many factors that go into it. You may meet someone wonderful and perfect for you, but maybe they just got out of a bad relationship or they are moving for a job, or some other factor that makes things not work out. You may meet someone who wants exactly what you do but you have zero chemistry and it's like kissing a sibling. Maybe the other person is a quitter and they bolt the minute the relationship hits a rough patch. To find that one person that you're compatible with, attracted to, who is ready for the same level of relationship as you, and that sticks things out for the long haul seems absolutely impossible.
I think God does not want me to procreate. There is just no other way to explain the incredibly bad luck i have with women. I am a reasonably good looking guy, i make ok money but not great, and i am open to many different kinds of women... older, younger, with a kid, no kids, skinny, thick, etc...
Other guys with my qualifications seem to do just fine getting women. So i think that's it. The Man Upstairs just thinks that i would make a bad father. He could be right, frankly. I complain about my own problems all the time and i never figure out how to fix them... so how am i going to teach a kid how to handle life's problems if i cannot handle my own?
Maybe i'll start pursuing women who are above the age where they can still have eggs and have a kid. Maybe it's time for me to start being a Cougar-chaser, and see if fate works out better for me.
How attractive you are and how much money you make is a non factor to myself. The most beautiful personality in the world always wins no matter what.
That's right. Some women out there won't care if a man has no job, no car, lives with the parents, etc. Just like there are men out there who won't care if a woman is fat and unnatractive. All kinds of people out there.
Yeah I always blame all my shortcomings on everything else too.
You remind me of a friend of mine OP. Always blaming his mishaps because of someone or something else.
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