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Old 09-11-2012, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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If you're a guy with plenty of testosterone, it is. Many guys would probably like to have sex with 300 women, but they can't. (unless they are picking up streetwalkers or buying escorts)
Testosterone is ability to keep it up and perform for 300 minutes.
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Old 09-11-2012, 11:31 AM
 
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Just got to ask...philosophy major or English major?
Brain user.
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Old 09-11-2012, 01:56 PM
 
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Everyone says cheating is a symptom that something is wrong in the marriage and while I agree that it is most of the time, I also think there are people who cheat who are happily married. Those are the people who are happy but just a little bored. Although it's fiction, a good example of how that looks is the movie "Unfaithful".
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Old 09-11-2012, 02:03 PM
 
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Everyone says cheating is a symptom that something is wrong in the marriage and while I agree that it is most of the time, I also think there are people who cheat who are happily married. Those are the people who are happy but just a little bored. Although it's fiction, a good example of how that looks is the movie "Unfaithful".
I think you are right. There are those that do it because they want to sample all the cake out there, and those that do it because there is something truly dysfunctional in their marriage.

I think the latter group doesn't necessarily go out looking for it, but somehow they find themselves in a situation and make poor choices. The first group, I think they go out in search of it.
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Old 09-11-2012, 02:05 PM
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Location: Phoenix,AZ
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I always thought the main reason for cheating was too much vodka.
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Old 09-11-2012, 02:09 PM
 
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The first group, I think they go out in search of it.
Yes, but they are more like predators - they are actively looking for it. There is also a group within the wider group of happily married but a little bored people (read: there's nothing dysfunctional in their marriage) who are not thinking about cheating or looking for it beforehand, but it falls into their lap, like in the movie "Unfaithful". And, yes, they make poor choices too.

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Old 09-11-2012, 10:04 PM
 
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They're wired correctly for them. I don't know why you guys (and it's not just you) think the planet should be carbon copies of you. The world would be bleak, boring, and stagnant if that were the case. You have to lie on an internet forum about your income and background (I can re-post where I outed you), essentially lie about yourself, and yet you think other men should be like you. You have no idea how awesome, talented, and productive men can be. Men lying on the internet about themselves and flapping their gums about sex isn't it.
U mad, bro? Yea, u mad.
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Old 09-12-2012, 04:53 AM
 
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U mad, bro? Yea, u mad.
I'm not mad, but you're sad.

Somebody asked me in rep to show my previous post outing you, so here you go. I don't understand the point of lying online. You are anonymous. It's not as if you actually get credit for the lies. Not only do I suspect that you still live with your parents, but if you are in you are in your 30s you belong in the 30-40 year old virgin thread.

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It's an inheritance issue with me in addition to making my folks happy.

And no, I don't live at home. I just graduated from grad school in May, I'm currently living in the NYC area, and I start my job as a management consultant (senior consultant) next Monday.
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Are you serious?? lol

If someone gave me $25 million right now, ALL of my problems would be solved and I'd be able to live the life I've always wanted. I'd be a very happy camper.
Something is just not adding up here. You're 30 years old, which is a surprise, and still under your parents thumb. Are you Indian? You just graduated from grad school. In a previous post in one of these threads you said you want to be earning 200k by the time you're 40.

Then I see this post...
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-I'm a senior consultant for a relatively large management consulting firm
-It took me 6 years out of law school to get to where I'm at (a little over $170k in 2011)
-It's a bit more stressful now because I have more responsibilities at work, but it isn't too bad because I'm single, have no kids, and very little student loan debt (around $22k remaining).
Where you are already earning 170k. It took you six years to get there by working your way up as a consultant.

The ages don't match up. In this post you said you are 30. If you graduated college at 22, then law school at 25, worked as an attorney (according to this post )for at least a couple of years, that would put you at say 27 before you started consulting. Then you were in grad school while working this high earning job which probably had sick hours. One of my gf's is a Harvard graduated attorney earning that kind of money, but there is no room for grad school. Fitting in those grad school years independent of your 170K+ job would put you around 33 years old right now, not 30. Further, I don't understand why you would be starting your big consulting job when you already have a big consulting job.

Something is off here. Are you pulling legs?

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Old 09-12-2012, 10:29 AM
 
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I'm not mad, but you're sad.

Somebody asked me in rep to show my previous post outing you, so here you go. I don't understand the point of lying online. You are anonymous. It's not as if you actually get credit for the lies. Not only do I suspect that you still live with your parents, but if you are in you are in your 30s you belong in the 30-40 year old virgin thread.

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Something is just not adding up here. You're 30 years old, which is a surprise, and still under your parents thumb. Are you Indian? You just graduated from grad school. In a previous post in one of these threads you said you want to be earning 200k by the time you're 40.

Then I see this post...


Where you are already earning 170k. It took you six years to get there by working your way up as a consultant.

The ages don't match up. In this post you said you are 30. If you graduated college at 22, then law school at 25, worked as an attorney (according to this post )for at least a couple of years, that would put you at say 27 before you started consulting. Then you were in grad school while working this high earning job which probably had sick hours. One of my gf's is a Harvard graduated attorney earning that kind of money, but there is no room for grad school. Fitting in those grad school years independent of your 170K+ job would put you around 33 years old right now, not 30. Further, I don't understand why you would be starting your big consulting job when you already have a big consulting job.

Something is off here. Are you pulling legs?
You could have just told that person in a message. You're not exactly covering yourself in glory here. Then again, I'm not that attentive enough to focus on such details.
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Old 09-12-2012, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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U mad, bro? Yea, u mad.
Again, you are reaching, and busted.

She's not "mad". If anything, she's frustrated.

She's also one of the brightest, most intelligent posters on this forum and you could learn a lot from her if you weren't so busy spinning your wheels, and tales.

Just food for thought...
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