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Old 09-09-2012, 07:33 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Originally Posted by bicoastal10 View Post
You act like dating, friends, and family don't exists.
You can't have the same level of bond with them as you could a spouse.

Just my opinion of course.

Hey, I wish you no ill will, not gonna give you a hard time, I just think you're line of reasoning is off, again, just my opinion.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I love it when homebody housewives function as a team on C-D.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:41 PM
 
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I love it when homebody housewives function as a team on C-D.
Still p*ssy about the finance? Stupidity should always have light cast upon it. Screw PC bull.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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You can't have the same level of bond with them as you could a spouse.

Just my opinion of course.

Hey, I wish you no ill will, not gonna give you a hard time, I just think you're line of reasoning is off, again, just my opinion.
Not just your opinion, on either count
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:43 PM
 
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You can't have the same level of bond with them as you could a spouse.

Just my opinion of course.

Hey, I wish you no ill will, not gonna give you a hard time, I just think you're line of reasoning is off, again, just my opinion.
I understand what you're saying, but I don't have the same goals that many other people have. All I want to do is make as much money as possible, sleep with as many attractive women as possible, and travel the world as much as possible. That's it. I really have no interest in anything else at this point.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I understand what you're saying, but I don't have the same goals that many other people have. All I want to do is make as much money as possible, sleep with as many attractive women as possible, and travel the world as much as possible. That's it. I really have no interest in anything else at this point.
And that's great! Go for it

Just don't make yourself look so bad by making sweeping generalizations about something you don't understand.

Just let it go - marriage isn't on your radar so it doesn't need to be something you spend any energy discussing
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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And that's great! Go for it

Just don't make yourself look so bad by making sweeping generalizations about something you don't understand.

Just let it go - marriage isn't on your radar so it doesn't need to be something you spend any energy discussing
Ah, but it does because I'm stuck in a bad situation. I'm an only child and certain things are expected of me (I'm expected to reproduce and don't like the idea of doing the baby mama thing) so I'll need to figure things out within the next 10 years.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Ah, but it does because I'm stuck in a bad situation. I'm an only child and certain things are expected of me (I'm expected to reproduce and don't like the idea of doing the baby mama thing) so I'll need to figure things out within the next 10 years.
As has been said before - you are only "stuck" if you allow yourself be stuck.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:57 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Ah, but it does because I'm stuck in a bad situation. I'm an only child and certain things are expected of me (I'm expected to reproduce and don't like the idea of doing the baby mama thing) so I'll need to figure things out within the next 10 years.
I'm an only child as well, being a male I did feel a certain need to reproduce to keep my family name going... but heck, it's a fairly common last name, so it won't die....

DON'T get married and have kids just because you feel pressure to do so.

Be your own man, stand up for what you believe, you don't want a wife and kids, don't do it, it will only backfire.

Live your own life... It's all you can do.
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Old 09-09-2012, 07:58 PM
 
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As has been said before - you are only "stuck" if you allow yourself be stuck.
Who wants to disappoint their parents??? I'm trying to take their wants and needs into consideration.
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