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Old 09-25-2012, 12:03 PM
 
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I went to small church with a girl I was dating years ago. I swear the minister was looking right at me while he was giving a hell bent Sermon on Sin and Lust. I had beads of sweat rolling off my head the whole time. I thought I was going to burst in flames at anytime.
Those are churches one needs to avoid. It's not you. It's the "holier than thou" pastor. Ditto for uptight Catholic parishes who tote the same line. God only knows, they've got some real skeletons in their closets.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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I do believe in God but I am not super holy and religious. I don't really care for Baptist churches--they are too long and too much gossiping goes on
Amen, babe. Local churches and parishes are full of nothing but gossip, among one of the least Christian-like things, especially in a setting of worshipers. Why do you think I have trouble going?
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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They could choose to be ALONE rather than become "baby mamas" to underachieving black men.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Why...because you personally don't find women with dark skin and African features attractive?
I just don't think she's that attractive, not somebody I would date. And for the record I'm black, so you can save playing your race card.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:28 PM
 
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I just don't think she's that attractive, not somebody I would date. And for the record I'm black, so you can save playing your race card.
There are many black men who just go around chasing white women. It's funny to be honest.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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There are many black men who just go around chasing white women. It's funny to be honest.

Ah........ Ok.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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I just don't think she's that attractive, not somebody I would date. And for the record I'm black, so you can save playing your race card.
What does that have to do with you not finding dark skin and African features attractive?
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:46 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Let me call to inform this guy he's dating "down".


Looks like you were the one "dating down" in that match.. Good grief, girl...damn
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I just don't think she's that attractive, not somebody I would date. And for the record I'm black, so you can save playing your race card.
Well, I don't want to get my thread closed. But you probably don't like her because she doesn't have that mixed look a lot of black guys prefer.

And many people wonder why I'm the way I am. Black guys who think like 14Bricks are the reason why I am not confident in myself.
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Old 09-25-2012, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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It seems like, in the last 20 years, people get pissed if you don't want to consider interracial dating, as in "How dare you think like that?" Sorry. It's my third leg.
If it doesn't apply to you, it doesn't. Are you able to appreciate beauty in women who aren't your type?
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