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Stop making excuses and get to the gym. Gyno can be fixed with weight loss or building your body and dieting. If it is a legit medical issue you can have surgery.
Thinning hair? So the hell what. You ever heard of Bruce Willis or Jason Statham? Do you have a round head? Shave it or buzz it
The short thing and small johnson are unfortunate, but shouldn't stop you from meeting a woman.
Oh wah. No, it probably won't, but it will make the rest of you more attractive to compensate. Stop wallowing. Are you happy now? Doesn't sound like it. So make some changes. They won't make things WORSE, will they?
Im 27 have been morbidly overweight since elementary school (medical issues caused me to go from underweight to massively overweight in less then 8 months and now being reversed slowly though the help of psychologists, nutritionists, and sugens), so to say I have physical flaws out side the norm is an underestimated.
I had lots of issues in high school and college... always blamed it completely on my size, now that im 27 and a much different person I come to realize the truth. While yes the majority of women will discard you at first look, what was really doing me in was my lack of confidence in myself and poor experience talking to women.
Since i've graduated and have gained a ton of confidence due to progressing quickly in my carrier my success with women has skyrocketed. I can attract women with my humor, confidence, intelligence, and accomplishments. If anything the sigle greatest attraction seems to be my drive... I have set carrier gold which im well on my way to accomplishing and am working hard to fix my flaws (weight).
Is it way harder for me then someone with great looks? Without a doubt, but I will say it does filter out the shallow and overly judgmental.
While appearance is the first thing people judge you on your personality, ambition, and confidence will go a long way.
Short
Thinning hair
stretch marks
gynecomastia
small penis
The list goes on and on and on.
You can't do anything about your height.
You could shave your head or get Rogaine.
Stretch marks no one really cares about. Heaven knows women who have kids have been dealing with them since the dawn of recorded time.
Man-boobs, it depends. If you are overweight, lose weight. If you are normal weight, I would have a doctor check you out because having them is a sign of another problem.
Small penis, there isn't anything you can do about, but I wonder what you mean. Because you mention gynecomastia, I wonder if you have hypogonadism or hypoandrogenism, in which case you probably need hormone therapy regardless. But if you are talking of run-of-the-mill below-average length, take comfort in that you are actually better suited for some sexual activities (and I'll let you use your imagination). Note that the average penis length at room temperature, flaccid, is 3-4 inches, and just under 6 inches erect. Make sure you are not comparing yourself to the freaks of nature in the porn industry or allowing yourself to be influenced by men who brag like high school boys in a locker room or women who ignorantly natter on about size.
In general, however, your issues are nothing greater than what millions of others have had to cope with. Plenty of men with your attributes have relationships. Women have the benefit of heels and cosmetics, but we still contend with physical flaws. Some are flat-chested, others have a tough time losing weight. We all have our issues. It's whether you let those issues dictate your path in life that matters.
1. Short - if you're short, find a shorter woman, or a less shallow one.
2. Thinning hair - hair plugs, or shave it all off and look clean cut.
3. Stretch marks - gym
4. Man Boobs - Gym + Diet
5. Little Dick - Penis exercises/Penile traction device, and squats, or realize that there is more to sex than pushing a woman's cervix into her throat. While, penis size is important for some sex acts, penises are obviously not intended to be the only way to please a woman. If they were intended to be the primary source of pleasure for a womans body, every penis would fit right on top of a clitoris with a built in vibration/pulsating mechanism with a complimentary curve to find her g-spot. But because the primary purpose of a penis is to inseminate foremost, there are always alternative ways of pleasing a woman.
A lot of this comes down to accepting the body that nature/God gave you. I think our nation has done a great job of empowering more women to accept the variations in their natural God given bodies, and I think for gentlemen like the OP, similar efforts could be forwarded. Unless, you have some sort of testosterone/androgen deficiency that could actually affect your health, (which your symptoms seem to suggest), you could benefit from some self esteem work.
Sorry, JJ, but if that is YOUR stance then you definitely are in the minority. The vast majority of women most certainly DO NOT 'overlook' bad looks in men. No way.
Rabbit you used to make similar complaints, and were on the edge of swearing off women forever. But you found a woman. Why not share your success story with the OP?
Rabbit you used to make similar complaints, and were on the edge of swearing off women forever. But you found a woman. Why not share your success story with the OP?
My 'success story' is an exception... a lucky draw out of the cap, so to speak. I would rather see the OP get helpful advice on how to have fewer 'exceptions' and more 'rules'.
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