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There is a difference between saying, "I'm really down right now. The women I've been going after haven't been interested in me. It's really tough. One woman was really brutal to me and it's hard to take that kind of rejection."
-and saying, "Women have all the power. They don't have to do anything. They just sit there and make us miserable. They are cruel and I hate them."
See the difference?
This!! And there are plenty of man bashing women around too complaining they can't find anyone. Complaining isn't gender specific.
It's kindoff weird. On the Internet I see men complain FAR more then women, but in real life I see more of the opposite(and its not even close). I think it's more of online being a place where some guys can "vent" where they don't have that avenue in their real lives. Now do some go overboard absolutely
I never thought MEN complain too much. I think SOME PEOPLE complain too much. As far as a chronic complainer goes, I don't care why they're complaining or their "shoes". I don't want to be around a complainer.
If a thread title contains the words "you ladies" it is a red flag for a misogynist who is just prettying up the language and getting ready for a good old fashioned sexist rant and whine that he can't get laid.
Just wanted to say that some of us DO actually try and do things to change our life, but it just doesn't work. I think you ladies think we just sit around doing nothing about our problems. Speaking for myself, I try and go to singles events, take classes, work out a lot, eat healthy (for the most part), take classes on the weekends to improve my career prospects. I'm sure i could be doing more, but it's not like i'm just sitting around doing nothing and then wondering why things don't go my way. And yes, i definitely complain and get negative and frustrated when i put in the effort and don't get the results.
I suggest you walk a mile in someone else's shoes before being so judgmental. Unless you have no problem being the kind of person to kick someone when they are down.
women get a free pass for complaining, men not as much
Just wanted to say that some of us DO actually try and do things to change our life, but it just doesn't work. I think you ladies think we just sit around doing nothing about our problems. Speaking for myself, I try and go to singles events, take classes, work out a lot, eat healthy (for the most part), take classes on the weekends to improve my career prospects. I'm sure i could be doing more, but it's not like i'm just sitting around doing nothing and then wondering why things don't go my way. And yes, i definitely complain and get negative and frustrated when i put in the effort and don't get the results.
I suggest you walk a mile in someone else's shoes before being so judgmental. Unless you have no problem being the kind of person to kick someone when they are down.
Just wanted to say that some of us DO actually try and do things to change our life, but it just doesn't work. I think you ladies think we just sit around doing nothing about our problems. Speaking for myself, I try and go to singles events, take classes, work out a lot, eat healthy (for the most part), take classes on the weekends to improve my career prospects. I'm sure i could be doing more, but it's not like i'm just sitting around doing nothing and then wondering why things don't go my way. And yes, i definitely complain and get negative and frustrated when i put in the effort and don't get the results.
I suggest you walk a mile in someone else's shoes before being so judgmental. Unless you have no problem being the kind of person to kick someone when they are down.
Someone got dumped or had a bad day and needs a nap.
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