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Old 10-19-2012, 08:24 PM
 
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Wow, immature attitude here....resorting to name calling, have I called you anything? No. And in what way am I "f*cked up" ? I am simply calling it how I see it.
Sexist bigots are f*cked up. It's just the nature of the state. You can swap that out with angry, etc, but it makes no difference. Nor does your blame game.

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When I lived in Las Vegas, most 20 something women were in the adult entertainment industry in some form, and many sold their ass for a living. The ones who weren't in the adult entertainment industry were just like the 20 something women in Orlando, single parents, living at home, with no job and expecting a sugar daddy

It is the same way in my homestate of Connecticut. A lot of girls I attended middle school and 1st 2 yrs of high school with are single unemployed moms who live with their own parents

What does that tell you about America's young women? What does that tell you about today's twenty something population in general? Why do they all vote Democrat? Because they are part of Romney's 47%, the want to take take take and not give anything in return, its a mentality of "I'm not going to do anything productive, now give me my stuff!" Their parents made them this way because they got everything they wanted as children.
It doesn't say anything about America's women. It says something about you, the people you surround yourself with, and how/where you were raised. Where I live all the 20-something's I come across day to day on the MIT campus are highly educated, affluent young women. I'm sure the young women living in the mid-west, upper mid-west are on their own independent trips. All women you will never know, cross paths with, or even become aware of. That you think your Vegas life is representative of anything is absurd.

And I'm not sure what you're talking about IRT the 47%. Your weekly income is what, $3-400/week according to you? You're not paying crap in federal income taxes. You're one of the 47% that contribute little to nothing. And be clear, women that end up in Vegas stripping, doing porn, or as single moms didn't have shyte for parents doing anything for them. My God, it's the stuff for bad reality TV.

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When I was growing up the answer was always "No" with my parents and once I was old enough to earn money on my own, that's what I did and that is what I still do now. I grew up with nothing and I'll be damned if I'm going to live my adult life the same way and subject my future children (if and thats a BIG if any) to the same life I had as a child.

So because I was calling my generation how I see it makes me a f*cked up person? Like you're perfect? We're all f*cked up Braunwyn, its just how much. Some people are a little messed up while others are total whackos.
Yes, it makes you a f*cked up person as stated above. And no, we're not all f*cked up. Just because you and yours are doesn't mean the everybody is, and that's the point I'm making. You project your life wrongfully.

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Because of my beliefs about work ethic, and productivity and my old fashioned values, I feel like I'm 22 going on 50 But it is what it is
You're not going on 50. You are very immature and underdeveloped. You have a ways to go.
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Old 10-20-2012, 12:02 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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DavieJ89, you need to date young professionals. I know the circle that you move in; it does exist in every state, and every good sized town, but you can get out of it. There are legions of young women who are not interested in young unwed motherhood.

I actually do view a tiny subset of sexual predators as trash. For me, you forfeit your right to basic human consideration when you systematically and over a long period of time destroy children's lives in order to get off.

Everyone else... eh, live and let live.
The problem with young professionals, besides the fact that in Orlando they are almost non-existent, is that young professional women, only date young professional men. I don't consider myself professional. I dont make $1000+ a week nor do I have a degree or interested in pursuing one. All my friends who have degrees have six figures in student loan debt and are unemployed. I'd rather be employed and "uneducated" then to have a degree, owe $150k in student loans and be unemployed

I wouldn't be in the league with those women until I reach management status with my current company I work for, which I'm not 100% sure will happen. But at the same time, I'm not good at anything else either and my job is secure so I want to stay where I'm at. At minimum it will be 3 years before I make management, which will start at about $40k. Even then, I could not date a woman who makes more money than me, that would be emasculating
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Old 10-20-2012, 12:19 AM
 
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The problem with young professionals, besides the fact that in Orlando they are almost non-existent, is that young professional women, only date young professional men. I don't consider myself professional. I dont make $1000+ a week nor do I have a degree or interested in pursuing one. All my friends who have degrees have six figures in student loan debt and are unemployed. I'd rather be employed and "uneducated" then to have a degree, owe $150k in student loans and be unemployed

I wouldn't be in the league with those women until I reach management status with my current company I work for, which I'm not 100% sure will happen. But at the same time, I'm not good at anything else either and my job is secure so I want to stay where I'm at. At minimum it will be 3 years before I make management, which will start at about $40k. Even then, I could not date a woman who makes more money than me, that would be emasculating
What I'm getting is that you're not successful, but you look down on people (especially women) who aren't successful. That seems odd.
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Old 10-20-2012, 12:24 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Sexist bigots are f*cked up. It's just the nature of the state. You can swap that out with angry, etc, but it makes no difference. Nor does your blame game.

You mean the same blame game women like to play when men supposedly hurt them? Women have nothing to be angry about. You females have it so easy in the 21st century it's simply ridiculous when it comes to making money just find a sugar daddy, men give you the world just because they find you attractive. This is why most women vote Democrat, they cannot be self sufficient and must depend on men who will pay for their shopping, while men go and make all the money that ends up in their women's purses

It doesn't say anything about America's women. It says something about you, the people you surround yourself with, and how/where you were raised. Where I live all the 20-something's I come across day to day on the MIT campus are highly educated, affluent young women. I'm sure the young women living in the mid-west, upper mid-west are on their own independent trips. All women you will never know, cross paths with, or even become aware of. That you think your Vegas life is representative of anything is absurd.

My Vegas life? Hardly. As I stated in my last post, the women in Vegas who WEREN'T selling their asses for a living were just like the women I see in Orlando, single moms depending on their own parents having absolutely no ambition or goals other than to go to the clubs with their girlfriends every Friday and Saturday and get a laugh at rejecting men, all on mommy and daddy's dollar

And I'm not sure what you're talking about IRT the 47%. Your weekly income is what, $3-400/week according to you? You're not paying crap in federal income taxes. You're one of the 47% that contribute little to nothing. And be clear, women that end up in Vegas stripping, doing porn, or as single moms didn't have shyte for parents doing anything for them. My God, it's the stuff for bad reality TV.

I may not be paying much in federal income tax but best believe I AM PAYING a percentage of my paycheck every week, I only claim myself on my W-4 form and about 10% of my income is federal witholding. It's not much but I still pay taxes

Yes, it makes you a f*cked up person as stated above. And no, we're not all f*cked up. Just because you and yours are doesn't mean the everybody is, and that's the point I'm making. You project your life wrongfully.

We are all f*cked up in some form or another. As I said, its just HOW f*cked up you are. Don't try to play this facade that you're some good perfect upstanding model citizen. I'll buy that after I buy some lakefront property in the Mojave Desert Whether you want to believe I am angry, sexist, bigoted, or whatever, I hope you know that I treat everybody I meet with kindness and respect, man, woman, gay, straight, transgender, etc. I strive to be the best person I can be everyday and succeed in this one life I have. In spite of my opinions, if I meet the right woman I am always willing to give somebody a chance if I genuinely like them. Whether you believe it or not, I have a lot of friends both male and female and am well liked and I'm always kicking it with somebody different 4 of 7 nights a week. The funny thing is I have not ONCE insulted or attacked you in any way or form, yet you are coming at me guns blazing. That's immature and underdeveloped. I never instigate arguments because I hate confrontation.

As far as dating is concerned, if any female is too stuck up to date me because I don't make enough money (number one reason), am unattractive, or genuine and caring, then its her loss. Like I said, any woman who I genuinely am attracted to and like will get a shot with me, and I'm usually the one doing the pursuit

I hope you know my beliefs came from my last two relationships putting me in a cumulative total of $12,000 in debt. My first gf had been cheating for a long time, and eventually broke our lease, which she secretly had her name removed from so she wouldn't be responsible, and took $6,000 worth of furniture, cookware and a 55 inch tv and surround sound system, then leaving me with the remaing 6 months on our 2 bedroom apt which was $6,000 thanks to damages her pit bull did, the next gf who was an escort who not only covered it up, but lied to me once I found out, secretly abused coke, ecstacy, and meth, and gave me something I will never be able to get rid of. So yeah, $12k in debt, and an incurable condition which will kill me if I don't take my meds, would make any man pretty bitter towards the opposite sex


You're not going on 50. You are very immature and underdeveloped. You have a ways to go.
My thoughts in bold....have a good night!

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Old 10-20-2012, 04:59 AM
 
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My thoughts in bold....have a good night!
You see how Brauwynn is? An elitist and it's sad that there are so many people like her. Look if you pay into the federal government and are not a government employee. You are ALREADY contributing more then all government employees! Who in the world get's the benefits and free time government employees get? Only the really rich!


We live in such a soft-fascism society it's scary. Makes me want to cry that this is the so-called free society we live in. But that is a whole other political debate that is not relationship.
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:05 AM
 
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Talk about ignorant. If everyone you know does a particular thing that the rest of the population does not, it's due to your demographic. This may be too complicated a point for you to grasp, but likes pretty much always go with likes from religion, to race, to class, to level of education, etc. But let's be clear, it's not everybody, just a segment on this forum and I just call it like I see it. Now, stop being so insecure about yourself.
Be nice Braunwyn, there is nothing insecure about an opinion. An opinion is just that. And it might not even be a serious opinion. So the fact that you get aggressive means you are the insecure one.

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If you are ashamed of your own demographic, that's your bag. You said that you live in a ghetto area, that all the 20-22 year old's you know have children, and that people are generally crappy. That has nothing to do with me and everything to do with you. Btw, I'm not originally from New England. I've lived all over the US, but keep trying.
Who said I live in a ghetto area? I see rolls royce and bentley on a daily occurrence here. And you are not the only one that has lived all over in the US. I've lived in France, Mexico, Canada, Japan for a time being and I have visited nearly all fifty states in the country.
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:38 AM
 
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Guys that father multiple children from various women and do not pay support.
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Old 10-20-2012, 05:46 AM
 
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At minimum it will be 3 years before I make management, which will start at about $40k. Even then, I could not date a woman who makes more money than me, that would be emasculating
Emasculating? Really? Do you think money is power in a personal relationship? If so, are we to presume if you are making more money than the woman you're with that would give you a edge in the relationship? Keep the little woman down? Hmmm. That's revealing. Maybe dating a woman who earns more would be good for your personal growth. Personal relationships aren't about who wields power. They're about mutual respect.
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Old 10-20-2012, 06:09 AM
 
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Old 10-20-2012, 09:56 AM
 
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You mean the same blame game women like to play when men supposedly hurt them? Women have nothing to be angry about. You females have it so easy in the 21st century it's simply ridiculous when it comes to making money just find a sugar daddy, men give you the world just because they find you attractive. This is why most women vote Democrat, they cannot be self sufficient and must depend on men who will pay for their shopping, while men go and make all the money that ends up in their women's purses
Some women do that and some don't. Some men do it (like you) and some don't. People have various reasons to be angry, but it's irrelevant to the point. No man or woman can rationally generalize their personal experiences onto a population. Any attempts to do so by either only exhibits a lack of intelligence on the bigots part.

The rest of your paragraph, like your posts, is a contradiction. These women you know are both single mom, welfare prostitutes, but they also have sugar daddies that take care of them. Get your story straight. Which is it? Further, you making the statement to me, a woman who has voted democrat and my tax burden is larger than your gross salary, that most women vote democrat because we cannot be self-sufficient is obviously absurd. There are more young women in college today than men. There are more women in medical school today than men. Therefore, your generalizations do not add up. If you want to point your finger you really should be doing it at both genders since neither is really ahead when it comes to responsibility.

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My Vegas life? Hardly. As I stated in my last post, the women in Vegas who WEREN'T selling their asses for a living were just like the women I see in Orlando, single moms depending on their own parents having absolutely no ambition or goals other than to go to the clubs with their girlfriends every Friday and Saturday and get a laugh at rejecting men, all on mommy and daddy's dollar
It's really no different. You know low class people. You know prostitutes. That's your life. You and your life will be where you are. That you think your experiences and life is something the vast majority shares is ridiculous. And sorry, I don't see you as any more of a quality person than the women you complain about. It all looks trashy from where I sit.

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I may not be paying much in federal income tax but best believe I AM PAYING a percentage of my paycheck every week, I only claim myself on my W-4 form and about 10% of my income is federal witholding. It's not much but I still pay taxes
Stop lying. Anyone that files taxes here will know that a gross income of 15k is not going to warrant a 10% fed withholding.

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We are all f*cked up in some form or another. As I said, its just HOW f*cked up you are. Don't try to play this facade that you're some good perfect upstanding model citizen. I'll buy that after I buy some lakefront property in the Mojave Desert Whether you want to believe I am angry, sexist, bigoted, or whatever, I hope you know that I treat everybody I meet with kindness and respect, man, woman, gay, straight, transgender, etc. I strive to be the best person I can be everyday and succeed in this one life I have. In spite of my opinions, if I meet the right woman I am always willing to give somebody a chance if I genuinely like them. Whether you believe it or not, I have a lot of friends both male and female and am well liked and I'm always kicking it with somebody different 4 of 7 nights a week. The funny thing is I have not ONCE insulted or attacked you in any way or form, yet you are coming at me guns blazing. That's immature and underdeveloped. I never instigate arguments because I hate confrontation.
Again, you are wrong. Everybody is not f*cked up. People may come across problems in life. A person may lose a job, a loved one may die, whatever. But that doesn't make people f*cked up. There are people that live their lives free of depression, free of ridiculous bull shyte. And it has nothing to do with being a model citizen. I don't even know what that is supposed to mean. You lie to yourself and are the typical "misery loves company" type of man, but in the end that doesn't make your dreams of mass misery truth. And you have no idea what it is to respect anyone. Bigots are not kinds.

Any person that talks filth about millions of people he will never know is the opposite of kind. What's amazing is that you take issue with the finger being pointed at you, but think it's just fine to talk smack about millions of early 20-something women. That really gets the core of what you're about.

One thing I have learned on this forum is that there is a commonality among people who blame others for their life position. It's always bad news.
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