Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
5,281 posts, read 6,590,770 times
Reputation: 4405

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
I just don't understand why you are so hostile towards me. I don't mean any harm.

I'm not hostile, but you're spending way too much time asking the wrong questions. When you start asking the right questions, then you're probably ready to put yourself in a relationship. Right now, seems like you probably need to get to know yourself better, because as a man I know tons of men who will take advantage of a woman with your mindset.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
6,616 posts, read 13,833,652 times
Reputation: 6664
Quote:
Originally Posted by branh0913 View Post
I'm not hostile, but you're spending way too much time asking the wrong questions. When you start asking the right questions, then you're probably ready to put yourself in a relationship. Right now, seems like you probably need to get to know yourself better, because as a man I know tons of men who will take advantage of a woman with your mindset.
Quoted for emphasis.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:15 PM
 
2,076 posts, read 3,663,354 times
Reputation: 908
Quote:
Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
Describe sexually outgoing? I don't want to look desperate.
lol well, how do you think you look asking these questions?

granted this is online....
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Midwest
2,953 posts, read 5,120,825 times
Reputation: 1972
Quote:
Originally Posted by branh0913 View Post
I'm not hostile, but you're spending way too much time asking the wrong questions. When you start asking the right questions, then you're probably ready to put yourself in a relationship. Right now, seems like you probably need to get to know yourself better, because as a man I know tons of men who will take advantage of a woman with your mindset.
You're not helping me at all. What type of mindset do I have??

Quote:
lol well, how do you think you look asking these questions?

granted this is online....
I really want to know. There are lots of pretty girls out there and I need to know what I can do to stand out more
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:17 PM
 
Location: My House
34,938 posts, read 36,264,326 times
Reputation: 26552
Quote:
Originally Posted by branh0913 View Post
I'm not hostile, but you're spending way too much time asking the wrong questions. When you start asking the right questions, then you're probably ready to put yourself in a relationship. Right now, seems like you probably need to get to know yourself better, because as a man I know tons of men who will take advantage of a woman with your mindset.
I'm a woman. I also know plenty of men.

This man may be a bit curt in his offering, but the advice is rock solid.
__________________
When in doubt, check it out: FAQ
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Midwest
2,953 posts, read 5,120,825 times
Reputation: 1972
Quote:
Originally Posted by JetJockey View Post
Nothing, unfortunately

You can hope that one of the guys might like average girls or quirkiness or something else that you may offer off the bat, but other than that the men will likely be drawn towards the beautiful women.
This is the only honest response I received. Thank you
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:24 PM
 
9,659 posts, read 10,228,924 times
Reputation: 3225
Actually many men do approach average women, given that they are not overweight. What you do to make yourself stand out is by not being crazy or full of baggage. Remember plenty of men ARE looking for a quick lay, but plenty are not.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:26 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
819 posts, read 1,129,851 times
Reputation: 1279
Quote:
Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
Guys, honestly what can an average looking girl do to stand out if she is competing with other girls who are more attractive....??

We know how shallow men are and they are going to notice the most attractive women first while overlooking the more average looking girls...but there has to be something we can do to pop out more if our looks are not our strongest advantage...
Breast implants, liposuction, extensive plastic surgery, revealing clothing, alcohol, roofies...the list goes on.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
45,217 posts, read 100,739,056 times
Reputation: 40199
Quote:
Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
I just don't understand why you are so hostile towards me. I don't mean any harm.
If this statement is true, than you really are clueless about men.

You started this thread with "We know how shallow men are".

Oh yeah, that's SURE to endear you to other posters here.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-08-2012, 07:28 PM
 
8,011 posts, read 8,210,154 times
Reputation: 12164
Quote:
Originally Posted by nyanna View Post
This is the only honest response I received. Thank you
Well geez why ask the question?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:24 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top