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Old 11-07-2012, 03:29 PM
 
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I have know this guy for 6 days and we stopped talking Monday afternoon. I have not heard from him at all since then. But I was thinking of calling him later today should I do that or do you think that would be bugging him? I did send him 1 text yesturday saying I hope he had a good day.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:36 PM
 
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Don't call. Monday was only two days ago and you've already initiated contact that so far has been unanswered. Who knows why he hasn't responded-busy at work, school, relative rushed to the hospital, etc. If he doesn't respond in another few days, assume he isn't interested and move on. Rule #1: he's just not that into you if he isn't calling (texting, IM, insert communication method of choice) you.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:40 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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No. Try giving him a call if you are still interested. An actual call. if he does not respond by then-Move on.

I ahve said this before and i think many other agree with me-when not in a relationship and actively seeking one, Dating sucks. it just sucks. It's like trying to crack an NSA code with some people with the signals, he said, she said. this can happen in relationships but i guess most folks get what I am saying.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:42 PM
 
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Hahaha thanks.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:50 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Did he respond to your text? If not, he probably isnt interested. Doesnt mean you shoulnt call though, because that is the best way to find out the truth.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:56 PM
 
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Did he respond to your text? If not, he probably isnt interested. Doesnt mean you shoulnt call though, because that is the best way to find out the truth.
No reply to the texts and I will be calling him tonight. Do you think I should ask him straight out

"Are you interested in me or not?" or would that be a bad idea?
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Old 11-07-2012, 04:00 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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No reply to the texts and I will be calling him tonight. Do you think I should ask him straight out

"Are you interested in me or not?" or would that be a bad idea?



Dont put him on the spot like that. Just have a casual conversation, and perhaps ask if he would like to hang out or grab a bite one day. Or something. If he even answers the phone.
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Old 11-07-2012, 04:02 PM
 
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Dont put him on the spot like that. Just have a casual conversation, and perhaps ask if he would like to hang out or grab a bite one day. Or something. If he even answers the phone.
Haha alright.
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Old 11-07-2012, 04:05 PM
 
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Dont put him on the spot like that. Just have a casual conversation, and perhaps ask if he would like to hang out or grab a bite one day. Or something. If he even answers the phone.
I agree. Keep the.conversation casual.
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Old 11-07-2012, 04:11 PM
 
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If you are interested call. And that will allow you to gauge his interest.
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