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Old 12-07-2012, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Is it weird that I was really into it? I wouldn't mind if it happened again, but I don't want to screw up our living situation... we have another 9 months left on our lease.

Everyone is obsessed with sex, than as soon as they get some they think everything is ruined. Wtf?

Just chill, laugh about it and do whatever. It's only as awkward as you make it.
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Old 12-07-2012, 12:49 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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Yeah, after I showered this morning, I went into her room to look for my cell phone and she said, "We are bad" and pulled the covers over her face. My reply was, "Oh, relax, it's not a big deal" and left. So, I think I'm being pretty cool about it.
haha typical "girl" reaction. I sometimes think my thought processes are more like a guy. So yeah, she's probably going to act funny, just don't respond to it or try to bring it up or anything - what's the point? If she does, just react like you did this morning.

She was obviously into it too if you guys did it 3 times. Just sayin' But yeah, see how things go. A FWB situation might not be ideal for roommates, especially if one of you gets really attached to the other but there's no commitment. Good advice from my dad: Don't sh*t where you eat.
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:03 PM
 
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Yeah, move out.
Agree. Just the idea she called in sick and hung around the apartment the next morning (is that usual for her?) hints that she is developing hope or expectation that the two of you might wind up in a relationship together. There are just some lines you shouldn't cross unless you don't mind dealing with the messy consequences of doing so. Good roommates who pay their share and aren't a pain in the azz aren't exactly plentiful, either.
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Text her like nothing happened, be completely normal.

Then go home and bang her again.
This is terrible advice!! You shouldnt go home and bang her! You should go home and bang her 2x!!!
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:11 PM
 
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Agree. Just the idea she called in sick and hung around the apartment the next morning (is that usual for her?) hints that she is developing hope or expectation that the two of you might wind up in a relationship together. There are just some lines you shouldn't cross unless you don't mind dealing with the messy consequences of doing so. Good roommates who pay their share and aren't a pain in the azz aren't exactly plentiful, either.

Morning sickness is a condition that affects more than half of all pregnant women.
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:15 PM
 
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Morning sickness is a condition that affects more than half of all pregnant women.
Its not going to happen overnight.
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:16 PM
 
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Everyone is obsessed with sex, than as soon as they get some they think everything is ruined. Wtf?

Just chill, laugh about it and do whatever. It's only as awkward as you make it.
You're soooo right burgler09...it really is "only as awkward as you make it".
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Morning sickness is a condition that affects more than half of all pregnant women.

you cannot be serious.
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Old 12-07-2012, 01:18 PM
 
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You're soooo right burgler09...it really is "only as awkward as you make it".



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Old 12-07-2012, 01:25 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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This thread confirms when people ask "my girl has male roomates should it make me nervous?" or "my wife wants to go out with a guy friend should I worry?" that when people say " just trust them" that is all BS.

Moral of the story, your girl rooms with a guy there is a high probability that at soom point it will just happen.

Moral of the story, your wife has a guy friend she hangsout with there is a high probability at some point it will just happen.
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