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Old 12-22-2012, 04:05 PM
 
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You are a man hater. You actually think she paid for 100% of all those dates?

All of what dates? She said she was friends with the guy for 6 months and only dates someone once or twice if she was already friends with him before that. Generally when people are just friends, they go dutch or alternate who pays when they hang out.
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:11 PM
 
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For serious? You're afraid someone is going to intimidate you into marriage?
Yes. I told this guy I only wanted to be friends and in our first hangout, he showed me pictures of his mother. Shortly after he said we would go to California together, and I know I did not agree to going anywhere with him.
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:33 PM
 
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Yes. I told this guy I only wanted to be friends and in our first hangout, he showed me pictures of his mother. Shortly after he said we would go to California together, and I know I did not agree to going anywhere with him.
I'm not saying there aren't crazy people out there, I'm just saying no one can force you to do something you don't want to and the fear that they can is a sorry excuse for not living life to its fullest.
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:35 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I beg to differ. The more aggressive ones chase me away because they put too much pressure on me. It makes me,wonder if they'll push me,into marriage and other things I wasn't ready for or things I didn't agree on.
I believe that is true about YOU. But I was making a general observation.
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Old 12-22-2012, 04:41 PM
 
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I'm not saying there aren't crazy people out there, I'm just saying no one can force you to do something you don't want to and the fear that they can is a sorry excuse for not living life to its fullest.
I think the fear may have turned into disgust.
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:11 PM
 
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I think the fear may have turned into disgust.
Okay. Still think that's pretty pathetic.
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:11 PM
 
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Okay. Still think that's pretty pathetic.
Yeah? And?
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:12 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Break it up everyone!
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Old 12-22-2012, 05:52 PM
 
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I'm sure you are as long as you weren't paying for the dates. Im sure you you loved eating those meals without giving up sex. Do you tell them this prior



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sorry, bitter man, the op didn't say or imply that meals were purchased for her. anyone who attempts to buy sex with meals, deserves much frustration
LOL. i too was WTFing here so the reason guys pays for the meals is for sex? whaaaa? well i guess im lucky guys i date online don't think like that.

the guy im going out with tomorrow says my smile is enough.
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Old 12-22-2012, 06:08 PM
 
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LOL. i too was WTFing here so the reason guys pays for the meals is for sex? whaaaa? well i guess im lucky guys i date online don't think like that.

the guy im going out with tomorrow says my smile is enough.

Because otherwise women would starve to death, so sex seems like a reasonable payment for a $10 meal at Applebee's.
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